Why God am I still single?

“God why Am I Still Single” is not your run-of-the-mill relationship book on how to find a man. It is a spiritual guide for Black women who are seeking insight into why her prayer for a husband is not being answered – and what she can do in order to receive the husband she desires and deserves.
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What is the reason I am still single?

They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life. Others are single due to the circumstances of their lives. They may have just gotten out of a meaningful relationship or have dated relentlessly and just haven't found someone with whom they're truly compatible.
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How do I trust God in my singleness?

In order to trust God with your single season, you need to make a practice of trusting God with your entire life. Daily commit your ways to God. Commit to seek His will for today: His will for what is right in front of you.
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When God says not yet to a relationship?

This “not yet” could mean God will tell you to say “yes” to this opportunity one day or it could mean God is going to lead you to say “no” to this relationship opportunity. But at this point God has you in a season where no action is required because you need more direction from the Lord first.
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What does God say about being alone?

Psalm 34:18 tells us that “The Lord is close to the broken-hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” In Psalm 25:16-17, the writer gives us a prayer to God in a time of loneliness: “I am lonely and afflicted, relieve the troubles of my heart and free me from my anguish.”
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GOD SHOWED ME WHY SO MANY (GOOD WOMEN) ARE STILL SINGLE! (POWERFUL MESSAGE)



Why is being alone so powerful?

Solitude improves psychological well-being.

But solitary skills could be help you become mentally stronger. Studies have found people who set aside time to be alone tend to be happier. They report better life satisfaction and lower levels of stress. They're also less likely to have depression.
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When God gives you signs to leave a relationship?

1 You have a gut feeling. 2 He pushes you to disobey God. 3 He disregards your boundaries. 4 You don't feel in control around him.
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How do you know when God wants you to let go of someone?

11 Signs God Is Telling You to Break Up with Your Boyfriend

2 He disregards your boundaries. 3 He pushes you to disobey God. 4 You don't feel in control around him. 5 He's become more important to you than God.
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How do you know if God wants you in a relationship?

When there is mutual interest, mutual commitment, and a mutual willingness to move the relationship forward at a healthy pace, these are strong indications God does want you with this person. Relationships are a unique place in life where the spiritual and practical combine and are constantly intermingling.
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Why is singleness so hard?

Since no one can foretell the future, a single person cannot know for sure whether they will find someone who meets their expectations and subsequently marry them. It is this lack of clarity about the yet-to-be spouse that makes the loss ambiguous, and in turn difficult to manage or come to terms with.
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Why am I having a hard time trusting God?

Another reason we can struggle to trust God is that we have limited understanding. We see so little when it comes to human history. It is hard for us to know how suffering fits in with God's good plan. We are taught to believe that God's plan is good and right, but it's difficult to see that when things are difficult.
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Is being single a blessing?

Being single is okay and in fact a blessing because you can invest time in quality friendships that'll last a lifetime. Having healthy social connections not only helps your mental health but also brings you amazing opportunities. So don't seek a relationship to fill a void. Seek social connections to share abundance.
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How do I accept being single forever?

Embrace Singlehood
  1. Immerse yourself in meaningful activities, and live in the now. ...
  2. Recognise that not all of your thoughts are facts. ...
  3. Don't wait to be in a relationship to pursue your goals. ...
  4. Use your past to inform your future, but not to sabotage it. ...
  5. Don't put your date on a pedestal. ...
  6. Do put yourself on a pedestal.
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What are the signs that you will be single forever?

Will I be single forever? 5 signs that scream for your attention
  • You have set very high standards and/or you have unrealistic expectations. ...
  • You compare everyone you date to your ex. ...
  • You have trust issues and find it hard to deal with it. ...
  • You are easily influenced by others' opinions.
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How do I stop obsessing over being single?

6 Ways to Feel Better About Being Single
  1. Change Your Perspective.
  2. Work on Your Goals.
  3. Stop Comparing.
  4. Invest in Other Relationships.
  5. Focus on the Benefits.
  6. Meet New People.
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When God is preparing you for a relationship?

When the Lord God is preparing you for a relationship, He wishes you to be healed of your previous traumas. Letting go of all the things that have happened in the past will prepare you for the things that are bound to happen and will enable you to be all out for that specific person you think God has granted you.
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How do you let go and let God take over?

How to Let Go and Let God, One Day at a Time
  1. 1) Identify what you can control—and what you can't. ...
  2. 2) Address what you can control. ...
  3. 3) Surrender what you can't control. ...
  4. 4) Meditate on the promises of your faithful God. ...
  5. 5) Choose a “letting go” motto. ...
  6. 6) Resolve not to act on fear but on faith.
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How do you know God is calling you to move?

How to Know When God Is Telling You to Move onto the Next Chapter
  1. New Interests or Passions. ...
  2. God Is Speaking in a New Way. ...
  3. Friends or Relationships are Shifting. ...
  4. Open or Closed Doors. ...
  5. Confirmation from God.
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How do you know if God doesn t want you in a relationship?

You will know when God is behind a relationship or when Satan is behind a relationship based upon how this relationship is affecting your connection to Christ. If you feel more and more distant from God the closer you get with this person, this is a sign God does not want you in this relationship.
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What does God say to do after a breakup?

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."
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What does the Bible say about letting go of someone you love?

Romans 12:19 ~ Letting go

Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
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What age does loneliness peak?

Some studies show a linear decline, some an inverted U-pattern (peaking in middle age), and others a U-pattern (peaking in early and late adulthood). Our previous study found that loneliness was highest in the late 20s, mid-50s, and late 80s.
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Why can't I stop being lonely?

A lot of mental illnesses like bipolar, anxiety and depression can all make people feel very lonely. Mental illness can make you anxious about seeing others, so you might spend more time indoors. Or it can lead to insomnia, which in turn can make you tired, irritable and lonely.
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Does loneliness make you age faster?

Psychological factors such as being lonely or unhappy accelerated aging by 1.65 years, compared with what normal aging would look like for healthy individuals without any physical or mental health problems, according to study results published in study results published in the journal Aging (PDF).
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