Why do humans want revenge?

People are motivated to seek revenge — to harm someone who has harmed them — when they feel attacked, mistreated or socially rejected. Getting an eye for an eye, Old Testament-style, is thought to bring a sense of catharsis and closure. A growing body of research suggests it may have the opposite effect.
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What type of person seeks revenge?

"People who are more vengeful tend to be those who are motivated by power, by authority and by the desire for status," he says. "They don't want to lose face."
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What is the psychology behind revenge?

The Long-Term Effects of Revenge

Even though the first few moments feel rewarding in the brain, psychological scientists have found that instead of quenching hostility, revenge prolongs the unpleasantness of the original offense. Instead of delivering justice, revenge often creates only a cycle of retaliation.
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What is the desire for revenge?

Desire for vengeance is elicited in response to unfair treatment or when one's self-worth is threatened. It evokes action tendencies to impose suffering on those who have made us suffer. It is an emotion that motivates revenge, but not necessarily leads to actual taking revenge.
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Is wanting revenge healthy?

It is inherently unhealthy because it takes a psychological and physical toll on the person. Venting those feelings of anger and hostility does not decrease those feelings," he said. "It may give you a cathartic feeling, but it doesn't last." Revenge spawns an endless cycle of retribution.
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Psychology Behind Why Morally Weak People Seek Revenge (Jordan Peterson)



Is revenge a human instinct?

A century of research in the social and biological sciences reveals a crucial truth: Though we might wish it were otherwise, the desire for revenge is normal—normal in the sense that every neurologically intact human being on the planet has the biological hardware for it.
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Why does revenge feel so good?

This means that revenge actually has the capacity to trigger both positive and negative emotions (including feeling tense, uncertain and having a sense of dread). This in many senses is the dilemma of revenge. Revenge seems so appealing and so rewarding, making the brain's reward centres positively glow.
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Is revenge ever justified?

Hurting someone else as revenge makes sense only if the harmed person is close enough to the wrongdoer so that he is also (indirectly) hurt by the vengeful act. Revenge is personal in the same way as resentment. ' It is not just an expression of anger or indignation or disapprobation of a moral wrong.
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What happens to the brain during revenge?

Neuroimaging studies have revealed that revenge behaviors are associated with activation of a neural network containing the anterior cingulate cortex, ventral striatum, inferior frontal gyrus, and dorsolateral prefrontal cortex (DLPFC).
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Do humans have a killing instinct?

Humans have evolved with a propensity to kill one another that is six times higher than the average mammal, according to new research.
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What does the Bible say about revenge?

The Apostle Paul says in Romans chapter 12, “Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.
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What are the humans most primal instinct?

These are seeking, anger, fear, panic-grief, care, pleasure/lust and play. Interestingly, it is thought that the most powerful instinct is “seeking”. Something that we generally give little thought or credence to. This is the instinct that moves us to explore our environment in order to meet our needs.
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Does revenge cure trauma?

Key points. Thoughts of revenge are especially likely in individuals who have been victimized and traumatized by others, especially those with PTSD. Revenge serves to balance out the victim's suffering and the perpetrator's actions, regulating feelings of injustice and loss of control.
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Should we take revenge or forgive?

Is forgiveness better or revenge? Results from a study by researchers at the University of Pittsburgh support what all the prophets have preached: that to forgive is simply better.
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Is revenge a coping mechanism?

Previous research has found a link between seeking revenge and a desire for status and power. The new study supports previous findings, pointing to a role for revenge as a coping mechanism to avoid shame. Researchers conducted six trials on 1,516 participants.
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Is seeking revenge selfish?

Revenge is a selfish act, while avenging a wrong done to a loved one is an act of love, you aren't doing it for yourself but rather for someone else who was taken advantage of and abused. Neither of these acts require you to continue to hold onto the wrong that was done. When you do that, you only hurt yourself more.
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What do you call a person full of revenge?

Revengeful also means inclined to seek revenge. The adjective vindictive is a close synonym. A more commonly used synonym is vengeful.
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Why is revenge best served cold?

Possible meaning: This saying suggests that if someone does something bad to us, it is better to pay them back later in time, not immediately. Vengeance may be more satisfying if it is not inflicted immediately.
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Is revenge sweet Why or why not?

It just doesn't feel as good for as long as many people think it would. In fact, some studies indicate that people experience a range of positive and negative emotions when contemplating revenge. So rather than revenge being either bitter or sweet, it's more likely that revenge is bittersweet.
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Does revenge backfire?

“Revenge can feel really good in the moment,” he says, “but when we follow up with people five minutes, 10 minutes and 45 minutes later, they actually report feeling worse than they did before they sought revenge.” Seeking revenge can backfire — but not for the reasons you may think.
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Does revenge release dopamine?

Magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) scans have revealed that thinking about revenge activates the reward center—where the feel-good neurotransmitter dopamine is lodged—in much the same way that sweet foods or even drugs can.
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Is revenge morally correct?

3. Revenge is an act of vindictiveness; justice, of vindication. The intense effort to avenge oneself or others can easily become corrupting, morally reducing the avenger's status to that of the perpetrator. Two wrongs do not make a right and (ethically speaking) never can.
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What is the most tolerable sort of revenge?

The most tolerable sort of revenge is for those wrongs which there is no law to remedy; but then let a man take heed the revenge be such as there is no law to punish; else a man's enemy is still beforehand, and it is two for one.
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Do people with PTSD want revenge?

In a study of 174 victims of violent crime (2), feelings of revenge were found to be common among subjects who developed PTSD. Such feelings were correlated with intrusive symp- toms and hyperarousal but not with self-reported avoidant symptoms.
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Why does revenge make you feel worse?

One study showed that revenge increases anger rather than decreasing it, possibly because taking revenge causes more rumination. While the avenger often believes their form of revenge is "just," the one who offended them usually perceives it as too harsh, creating a cycle.
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