Who can be your bridesmaid?

According to wedding etiquette choosing bridesmaids, it is best to start with your immediate family. This would include your siblings and then your cousins and so forth. If your family members are too young to serve as bridesmaids, you can ask them to be a junior bridesmaid or flower girl.
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Can a family member be a bridesmaid?

In many cases, family comes first because they'll be the ones who are still there, no matter what. However, if you come from a large family, you may have to limit the number of relatives in your wedding party.
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Should my fiance's sister be a bridesmaid?

Are you automatically expected to ask your fiancé's sister to be a bridesmaid? The short answer to whether or not you have to include anyone, even a family member, in your wedding party is no. This is your wedding, and you and your partner should do whatever feels right.
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Can my married friend be my bridesmaid?

Can I have my married friend as a bridesmaid in the wedding? Yes, absolutely! The idea that a bride needs to be surrounded by unmarried women is ancient history, and unless all your closest friends do happen to be unwed, it might as well stay that way. There's no reason you can't ask a married friend to be a maid.
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Who picks the bridesmaids for a wedding?

Including your siblings is the perfect way to start choosing your bridesmaids and groomsmen. If they're much younger, you may prefer to have them serve as ushers or junior attendants, but if they're close to your age, definitely give them the full-blown honor.
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Can my mom be a bridesmaid?

It's unconventional, but there's nothing to stop you from asking your mother to be a bridesmaid in addition to her role as mother of the bride.
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What to do if you have no friends for bridesmaids?

Alternative Bridal Party Ideas
  1. Have your/your fiancé's siblings walk down the aisle with their partners.
  2. Ask family members to be your bridesmaids.
  3. Ask your fiancé's sis/niece/cousin to stand beside you.
  4. Nix the bridal party altogether (Brides who choose this option say it's less stress and cost effective)
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What is a bridesmaid called if she married?

What is a Bridesmaid? In the traditional wedding ceremony, the bride is usually attended by young women of marriageable age. These attendants are referred to as bridesmaids. The chief, or lead, bridesmaid is called the maid-of-honor if she is single and the matron-of-honor if she is married.
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Should cousins be bridesmaids?

Depending on their age, a female cousin can be a junior bridesmaid. Usually too old to be a flower girl and too young to be a bridesmaid, the junior bridesmaid is a wonderful honor for the tween in your life. She will feel grown up and special wearing a dress chosen by the bride.
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Do you have to make someone a bridesmaid if you were theirs?

No, you don't have to make them a bridesmaid. Ultimately, it will be your decision whether or not to ask them to be a bridesmaid. It depends on how close you two are, and how long ago you served as her bridesmaid.
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Who pays for the bride's dress?

The bride's side of the family traditionally pays for the bride's wedding dress and the bridesmaids' dresses. Increasingly, however, bridesmaids are paying for their own dresses.
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Should siblings be in wedding party?

You are not obligated to include your siblings in your wedding party. Keep in mind that if you do not include your siblings, you might very well end up being grilled by your parents or your siblings themselves as to why they are not included. You might want to make sure you have a good, non-inflammatory explanation.
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What is the average number of bridesmaids?

A wedding can have quite literally any number of bridesmaids. Some brides have no maids at all, whereas others might have several dozen. The most common number of bridesmaids is 3, but anywhere between 1 and 12 is considered a perfectly normal amount.
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How do I choose my bridesmaids?

How to Choose Your Bridesmaids
  1. Make a list of who you feel closest to. ...
  2. Remember your bridesmaids can be men. ...
  3. Consider your expectations for a maid of honor and the rest of your bridal party. ...
  4. Decide if you want an even number of bridesmaids and groomsmen. ...
  5. Think about the availability of your potential bridesmaids.
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What is the age limit for a bridesmaid?

There is no age limit

The general opinion seems to be that age doesn't really matter. Some bridesmaids in their late 30s, early 40s and older may jump at the opportunity to be a special part of your wedding. Others may have other reasons for not wanting to be a bridesmaid.
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What is the youngest age for a bridesmaid?

Junior bridesmaids are between approximately 9 to 15 years old and are typically relatives (sister, niece, cousin) of the couple or the children of very close friends.
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Who should I ask to be bridesmaids?

According to wedding etiquette choosing bridesmaids, it is best to start with your immediate family. This would include your siblings and then your cousins and so forth. If your family members are too young to serve as bridesmaids, you can ask them to be a junior bridesmaid or flower girl.
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How early is too early to ask your bridesmaids?

Rule Of Thumb

The best rule is to ask your friends and family members to be your bridesmaids anywhere between a year to eight months before your wedding. That will give them enough time to plan the bachelorette party and get their dresses.
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What are junior bridesmaids?

A junior bridesmaid is a younger member of the wedding party who falls between the ages of a flower girl and bridesmaid (usually about eight to 16, or whatever ages you feel are appropriate). She might be a younger sister or sister-in-law, a niece, a cousin, a daughter, or a close family friend.
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What does the maid of honor pay for?

The maid of honour and the rest of the bridal party are expected to cover all wedding attire costs. This includes the dress (plus any necessary alterations), shoes, and any jewellery you'll be wearing the day of. Occasionally, the bride will gift her bridesmaids with whatever accessories she wants them to wear.
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What does the bridesmaid pay for?

Most often, bridesmaids cover the cost of their dress and undergarments, shoes, accessories, and hair and makeup for the wedding day. The bride may opt to cover any of the aforementioned costs if she deems it appropriate.
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Can my daughter be my maid of honor?

"Can My Daughter Be My Maid of Honor?" Younger children usually fill the role of the flower girl or junior bridesmaid, but if the child in question is your own daughter, by all means, make her the maid of honor.
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Can my niece be my maid of honor?

Whether you and your sister aren't that close or you have more than one sister to choose from, here's how to deal if that “sister-as-MOH” suggestion just isn't working for you. There's no rule stating you absolutely must make your sister your maid of honor—or even include her in your bridal party at all.
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What's the difference between maid of honor and bridesmaid?

While Bridesmaids' responsibilities are to be supportive and help as needed, the Maid of Honor will help the Bride out with whatever tasks are needed. This might include setting up the engagement party or rehearsal dinner and sending out invitations to name a few.
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Can you have two maid of honors?

There's no set rule on when having two honor attendants is appropriate-a bride can choose two "anytime she wants!" says McNeeley. But the choice works especially well "if she only has two bridesmaids anyway. I am seeing smaller bridal parties across the board these days."
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