What should you not say to an INTJ?

What are INTJs afraid of?

INTJs are always considering the future, trying to see things from many perspectives and uncover knowledge. Dealing with mental struggles and being unable to have control of one's own mind was a major source of fear for most of them.

What annoys INTJs the most?

What annoys INTJs?

They have no patience for cloying, manipulative remarks or emotional strategies meant to evoke a reaction. Telemarketers, salespeople, or day-to-day manipulations that can occur in relationships are not only irritating but can cause the INTJ to lose complete respect for the person engaging in the manipulative behavior.

What should INTJ avoid?

Due to their introverted nature, INTJs might want to avoid careers that demand a high level of social interaction, such as: Real estate agent. Childcare worker. Police officer.

10 Things You Should NEVER Say to an INTJ

Why INTJ are villains?

INTJs are the quiet mastermind that most cartoons choose as their comical evil villain. They're the types with the super convoluted long-term evil plan. They also internalize emotions and typically don't come across as friendly.

What do INTJs like to talk about?

INTJs discuss and argue a lot, because they have so many contingencies to consider. And they can talk about deep and abstract ideas, like politics, philosophy, and spirituality.

Can you manipulate INTJ?

INTJ's cannot be manipulated easily, mostly not at all. They might be manipulated by guilt but mostly not.

What helps an INTJ upset?

Are INTJs sensitive to criticism?

While INTJs can handle certain criticism, they don't feel it is smart to be around people who feel the need to constantly criticize and waste their time and energy. Most INTJs are great at dealing with criticism because they can separate the constructive comments from people just attempting to be harmful.

Do INTJs like talking on the phone?

I've dated three INTJs (two long term, last one for less than a year) and they all seemed to love talking on the phone. With each one we'd talk for hours, and they were persistent about calling daily (one multiple times a day), or at least every other day while we were apart.

How do INTJs act when they like someone?

Unless they like you romantically. Then, by all means, lavish away. INTJs are very protective of their personal space, so if they're casually touching you a lot then it's a good sign that they're interested in you. They might start small, like brushing your hand as they reach for something.

How can you tell if an INTJ is hurt?

INTJs are rather sensitive to certain actions, or signs of betrayal. If someone goes behind their back or does not defend them when they are being talked about poorly, the INTJ will be extremely hurt by this. When they let someone close they want that person to remain loyal to that connection and relationship.

How do INTJ react to stress?

An INTJ will typically become stressed in the situations shown in this MBTI type head illustration. In these circumstances you may feel physically stressed and intensely angry, with an obsessive focus on certain details and a tendency to overindulge.

Is INTJ a psychopath?

If someone is a psychopath it means that they have ASPD (Anti-Social Personality Disorder). From what I understand, a psychopath cannot be an INTJ. To clarify, a person cannot simultaneously have a personality disorder and a normal personality (by normal I mean one of the 16 Meyer-Briggs types).

What types are INTJs attracted to?

INTJs are attracted to the playful, fun, and open nature of ENFPs. ENFPs encourage INTJs to step out of their comfort zone and try new things. They are attracted to the intellectual, determined, and measured nature of INTJs.

What drains an INTJ?

INTJs tend to be drained by major emotional expressions. They're likely to be uncomfortable in emotional situations, preferring to look at things logically rather than coping emotionally. INTJs tend to be naturally reserved, so they are likely to be drained by spending a lot of time with a lot of people.

What do INTJs do when they are sad?

INTJs can spend so much energy rationalizing their emotions, that they then seek to bury the ones which don't make sense to them. When sometimes does not have concrete answers for them, they find themselves becoming truly frustrated and trying to turn away from these irrational feelings or thoughts.

How do you make an INTJ open?

Give them the time they need. INTJs hate feeling rushed to do anything — especially when it comes to showing emotions. Let them take things at their own pace and avoid nagging them that they never open up. Begging them to talk to you about serious topics will only make them retract even further.

How do you spot an INTJ?

Can INTJs be highly sensitive?

Their turbulence may be related to their introversion as well as to the fact that many INTJs are “highly sensitive persons” (HSPs). While INTJs may not see themselves as emotionally sensitive, they are often sensitive in other ways.

How do you make an INTJ happy?

How do you seduce an INTJ?

Asking a lot of questions and really diving into who the person is, is often a sign of flirting and serious interest for the INTJ. INTJs are often more direct people and so most of the time they avoid being too subtle. They often make their intentions clear with someone, and will express their interest.

Will INTJ make the first move?

For the INTJ it is important to move forward and go after the things that matter to them. If they find someone who they feel they can really connect with, the INTJ will not be afraid to make the first move. They might not be overly emotionally expressive, but they know how to make themselves clear.