What makes an INFJ cry?

INFJs are sensitive souls who are easily overwhelmed, but they have their limits. If they feel stressed by their environment, or the people in it, they'll tend to cry or become very quiet and want to be alone.
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Why are INFJs so emotional?

Due to our intuitive and feeling traits, INFJs feel deeply, and that's likely the understatement of the year. But because of our complete willingness to put others first — combined with our need to have complete trust in someone before opening up — we may fail to communicate our emotions.
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Which personality type cries the most?

You may find them crying weeks later just remembering how traumatic that particular story was. Advocates (INFJ) agreed with our statement more than any other personality type (89%), making them the most likely to tear up while turning the pages of Old Yeller.
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How does an INFJ act when hurt?

When INFJs are continually hurt or hurt bad enough, they slam the door on that toxic relationship. The well-known INFJ door slam isn't about punishing the other person. It's about protecting ourselves from more hurt. Even though many INFJs can seem to have a cold exterior, our hearts are soft.
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What do INFJs do when stressed?

When INFJs are under a lot of stress, they can fall into the grip of their inferior function, Extraverted Sensing, which makes the INFJ unable to think about their normal visionary ideas, be creative, or help others with their characteristic empathy.
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What is the INFJ dark side?

Moodiness

INFJs can be guilty of pushing people away and throwing a pity party. Of course, we'd like someone to confide in, but more often than not, we feel that most people wouldn't understand us even if we did open up. Sometimes INFJs can be just as confused about their moods as others are.
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What drains an INFJ?

INFJs are energized by working creatively towards a future vision or goal. In turn, they are drained by being in noisy, disorganized environments where they face frequent interruptions to their thoughts and musings. It's especially bad if they are in an environment where there is frequent conflict.
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What hurts INFJ the most?

The INFJ can find themselves getting hurt feelings over small actions taken, or even ones which haven't been taken. They don't do this on purpose, they just care so deeply about these people and value their opinions and their words.
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How do INFJ deal with trauma?

Healing from trauma and dealing with past pain requires the INFJ to open up to true vulnerability. This means acknowledging the past — good and bad moments — and remaining open to healing and growing from these events.
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Are INFJ cold hearted?

INFJs are sensitive souls who are easily overwhelmed, but they have their limits. If they feel stressed by their environment, or the people in it, they'll tend to cry or become very quiet and want to be alone. Some INFJs will be cold, sarcastic and very blunt or speak to someone only on a very superficial level.
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Which personality type is emotionless?

Schizoid personality disorder is one of many personality disorders. It can cause individuals to seem distant and emotionless, rarely engaging in social situations or pursuing relationships with other people.
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What is the most emotionless MBTI?

I say 'comes across' because, in my opinion, intjs seem to come across the most emotionless yet they still have a deep emotional world.
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What personality type hides their feelings?

Because people with a Type D personality tend to hide their negative emotions, they may not necessarily feel or act depressed or anxious.
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How do you deal with sadness INFJ?

INFJ: How to Deal With Negative Emotions
  1. Whatever emotion you feel, be it anger, sadness, or disappointment, find a healthy way to express it. ...
  2. Get clear on who the feelings belong to — and when they're not yours, ask them to leave. ...
  3. Make meditation your habit (just five minutes of deep breathing a day).
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How do you comfort sad INFJ?

The INFJ. When you're feeling especially down, you find comfort in getting some time to yourself in a peaceful, quiet environment. Being able to wrap up in a blanket and listen to a favorite song or read a favorite book can be calming for you. It can also be helpful to take care of yourself physically.
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Are INFJs logical or emotional?

Because their Introverted Intuition is paired with Introverted Thinking, INFJs are logical, highly analytical, and likely to experiment with new ideas.
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What happens when an INFJ is abused?

INFJs need harmony in their relationships to thrive.

Any survivor of abuse, whether it's emotional or physical, can be prone to doing this — because of the effects of trauma. However, INFJs may be even more prone to rationalizing, denying, and minimizing the behavior of their abusers in order to “keep the peace.”
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Are INFJ healers?

INFJ. INFJs are definitely natural healers, and find themselves constantly comforting others. They are extremely empathetic people, which helps them understand what others need in order to heal. They can easily give people comfort and work to ease their pain in whatever situations they get themselves into.
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Do INFJs have good memories?

INFJ. INFJs often remember the things that matter most to them, especially facts about their loved ones. They pay close attention to the people they care for, and will lock those details into their mind. They are intelligent people, who can process large amount of information at once.
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What does an unhealthy INFJ look like?

Unhealthy INFJs are chronic people-pleasers who never want to disappoint. 7. They become so involved with other people's problems that they can't focus on their own. Likewise, they become so bogged down with other people's emotions that their day is often ruined because someone else is having a bad day.
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What annoys INFJ?

INFJs detest attention-seeking behaviors and melodrama. Their strong intuition combined with their awareness of emotions makes it easy for them to spot when someone is being fake or is always seeking the spotlight. Emotionally manipulative movies and TV shows also get on their nerves.
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What should I not tell an INFJ?

7 things you should never say to an INFJ
  • “Calm down!” As we've just found out, INFJs are highly sensitive. ...
  • “You're just not trying hard enough.” ...
  • “I'm fine.” — when you know you aren't. ...
  • “No one will ever understand you.” ...
  • “You're doing too much.” ...
  • “You make it difficult to love you.” ...
  • “You're so boring.
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Are INFJ night owls?

INFJs are often night owls because they enjoy the peace and quiet when everyone else is fast asleep. This is when they have a chance to really dive into their own inner minds, and enjoy their imagination without people invading their space.
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Are INFJ energy vampires?

INFJs care about helping others, especially when they feel some sort of connection with that person. When the INFJ sees someone who is hurting or in pain they want to help ease that suffering, unfortunately this compassion makes them someone who energy vampires are naturally drawn to.
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Do INFJs shut down?

INFJs are empathetic, patient listeners and loyal friends, but they may shut down when others push them too far. The Counselor personality has a cold, closed side, and it can be extremely hard to win them back as a friend when that relationship becomes strained.
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