What is a good number of bridesmaids?

A wedding can have quite literally any number of bridesmaids. Some brides have no maids at all, whereas others might have several dozen. The most common number of bridesmaids is 3, but anywhere between 1 and 12 is considered a perfectly normal amount.
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Is 7 bridesmaids too many?

The bottom line: You don't need a certain number of people in your bridal party. You don't have to choose an odd number or an even number or a certain number, like five, because you've been to (or have been a part of) other weddings where that was the case.
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Is 20 bridesmaids too much?

Well, first things first: as a general rule of thumb, there is no set number of bridesmaids you should have. If you're wondering how many bridesmaids you should have, or how many bridesmaids there usually are standing up at a wedding, the answer is, on average, three to five bridesmaids.
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Should the groom's sister in law be a bridesmaid?

Yes, you should totally invite them to be bridesmaids and groomsmen. Most of the time, your wedding is about YOU. However, your future siblings in law are family – and even though you might not get along with them as amazingly well as you do with your BFF, you should still invite them in the wedding party.
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How big is too big for a bridal party?

Depending on formality, go larger or smaller. For a smaller wedding with around 50 to 60 guests, we recommend no more than four bridesmaids. For a larger wedding of 150 guests or more, wedding parties with 10 to 12 bridesmaids are more appropriate. Just keep this in mind: More isn't always merrier.
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Is 8 groomsmen too much?

For a formal wedding with over two hundred guests, the suggested number of groomsmen is between six to ten; aim for one usher for every fifty people or so. Informal weddings can get away with half of that. Of course, you need to strike a balance between the number of groomsmen and of bridesmaids.
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Is it okay to have an uneven bridal party?

Don't. It's perfectly common for couples to have a different number of attendants on one side or another, so a mismatched wedding party is seriously no big deal—it's actually a chic twist on tradition.
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When should you pick your bridesmaids?

The best rule is to ask your friends and family members to be your bridesmaids anywhere between a year to eight months before your wedding. That will give them enough time to plan the bachelorette party and get their dresses. Any less time may not be enough for them to be able to make the commitment.
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How many bridesmaids is too many?

On average, North American brides have between three and five bridesmaids. Some have way, way more than that; others forgo the bridal party altogether. If you're considering going above average (six bridesmaids or more), make sure you take into consideration the effect that this will have on the rest of your wedding.
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What does the bridesmaid pay for?

Most often, bridesmaids cover the cost of their dress and undergarments, shoes, accessories, and hair and makeup for the wedding day. The bride may opt to cover any of the aforementioned costs if she deems it appropriate.
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Who pays for the bridesmaids dresses?

Who Pays for Bridesmaids Dresses in the US?
  • In the US, the tradition is for the bridesmaids to each pay for their own bridesmaids dress, regardless of who is making the final call on what the dresses will look like.
  • The bride should try to be flexible about the kind of dresses she chooses for her girls.
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Is 7 groomsmen too much?

Ideally, it seems the perfect number of groomsmen to have in a wedding is anywhere from 2 to 4; larger weddings typically select 5 to 6 groomsmen to be in the wedding. We love a big wedding party. But keep in mind that the more groomsmen you choose for your wedding equals more expenses.
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Does maid of honor walk alone?

The Maid or Matron of Honor: The maid or matron of honor will walk alone after other members of the bridal party. The Flower Girl(s) and/or Ring Bearer(s): The children chosen will walk down the aisle one after the other. They can sit with their parents once they are done.
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Does the groomsmen have to match the bridesmaids?

When selecting ties for your groomsmen, it's important to consider your wedding palette, especially the major colors of the bridesmaid dresses. Your groomsmen ties don't necessarily need to match your bridesmaid dresses, but they do need to coordinate with them and with the groom's outfit.
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How many maid of honor can a bride have?

The simple answer is, yes, you can have two maids of honor at your wedding. Modern weddings have become more flexible with tradition, and many couples are customizing their weddings to their needs. In modern weddings, it's not uncommon to find two maid-of-honors in the bridal party.
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What is considered a large wedding?

How many guests are typically invited to each size wedding? These numbers may vary a little depending on who you're speaking with, but a small wedding typically includes 50 people or under, a medium wedding has a guest list of anywhere from 50-150 guests, and a large wedding has over 150 attendees.
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How many groomsmen is average?

Most weddings have at least two. This, ideally, should be the absolute minimum. An average of 3-5 groomsmen can be seen in a typical wedding with numbers going to as high as 8-10 groomsmen for very large weddings.
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Who stands closest to the bride?

At the altar, the bride stands on the left, the groom on the right, facing the officiant. The best man stands beside the groom, with the ring bearer and ushers to his right. The maid of honor stands beside the bride, with the flower girl and bridesmaids to her left.
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Who walks first in weddings?

1. Officiant. Your officiant is generally the first person to walk toward the altar, signifying the ceremony is about to commence.
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Which mother walks down the aisle first?

A. The groom's parents precede the bride's mother during the processional. Here's a rundown: After the ushers have seated all of the guests, the grandparents start up the aisle, followed by the groom's parents. Then the bride's mother takes her turn.
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Can you have 2 best men?

Here's some good news: There's no rule that says you have to tap just one guy to be your head attendant. In fact, having two best men is not only perfectly acceptable from an etiquette standpoint, but it's also the easiest way to honor two important people in your life.
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How do I choose my bridesmaids?

How to Choose Your Bridesmaids
  1. Make a list of who you feel closest to. ...
  2. Remember your bridesmaids can be men. ...
  3. Consider your expectations for a maid of honor and the rest of your bridal party. ...
  4. Decide if you want an even number of bridesmaids and groomsmen. ...
  5. Think about the availability of your potential bridesmaids.
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Does the woman pay for the wedding?

You might be aware that the bride's family is expected to cover the majority of the wedding day costs, while the groom's family pays for a variety of extra activities, like the rehearsal dinner and the honeymoon.
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Should the bride pay for bridesmaid hair and makeup?

The Bride Pays for All the Bridesmaid Hair and Makeup Costs

One of the two most common payment scenarios for bridesmaid hair and makeup is the bride covering all the costs.
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Do bridesmaids pay for their own makeup?

Who Pays for Bridesmaid Hair and Makeup? As a rule of thumb, the bridesmaids pay for their own hair and makeup on the day of the wedding. The bride does NOT have to pay for bridal party hair and makeup.
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