What happens when two military get married?

When one military member marries another, the couple becomes a “dual military” couple, also known as mil-to-mil marriages or simply “dual military marriages”. Different branches of service may use other terms.
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Do dual military couples get stationed together?

Unfortunately, being stationed together is not guaranteed, but all branches have a form of a Join Spouse program that tries to keep spouses together or within 100 miles of each other. That way you'll actually have the potential to see one another on off-duty days.
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What happens to married couples in the military?

Look for joint assignments – Each service branch has a program for assigning married couples to the same duty location or within 100 miles of each other. Be proactive in your search for joint assignments by looking into programs such as the Air Force Joint Spouse Program and the Married Army Couples Program.
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Can a husband and wife both be in the military?

Married In The Military

The military does not guarantee to assign married couples together, however, it will try. The term is Dual-Military Couples. Both members of the relationship are active duty, but also military spouses. A family plan is needed for this couple especially when kids are involved.
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Do married military get paid more?

Although not known as "military marriage pay," service members do receive a pay increase as part of their housing and cost-of-living allowances after they get married.
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Will the army move my wife after we get married?

If you have PCS (Permanent Change of Station) orders and get married before you actually make the move, you can have your spouse added to your orders and the military will pay for the relocation of your spouse and her property (furniture and such).
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What is military marriage pay?

According to LAWeekly.com, an unmarried private in the Army earns a monthly salary of about $1,350. However, if he gets married, his monthly salary increases to about $1,800.
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What benefits do married soldiers get?

Military marriages come with benefits.

As a military spouse, you have access to career and education support, non-medical counseling, financial benefits and much more. All free and available 24/7.
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What are the benefits of marrying a military man?

8 Awesome Military Marriage Benefits You Have as a Spouse
  • Being able to stand next to your hero. Yes! ...
  • Healthcare is Included. ...
  • You Can Get Marriage Counseling and Family Support. ...
  • Free education. ...
  • Military Discounts All Year Round. ...
  • Housing & BAH. ...
  • World Travel. ...
  • Joining a community.
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Why do military couples marry so fast?

The military's solution is to incorporate families in their entirety, and it pays the full relocation costs for each family member -- as long as they are married. This policy causes people to marry earlier than they had planned to, and sometimes to people they would not otherwise have married.
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Can dual military have kids?

You need to make sure you have reliable childcare when in garrison who can be flexible with the hours you may have. You'll also need someone to be your short-term family care plan for those times when you may have to go to the National Training Center (NTC), Joint Training Center (JTC), or other TDY.
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Can I join the military married with kids?

While the Army doesn't ban women with families from joining the service, it does require you complete a family care plan if you're either a single parent, married to another service member or your spouse is incapable of caring for your children.
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How long do you have to be married to get military spouse benefits?

Unfortunately, there's no such thing as military divorce benefits unless your service member has been in the military for at least 20 years AND you were married for at least 20 years AND your marriage overlapped his service by at least 20 years. That's known as the "20/20/20" rule.
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Can my wife come with me on deployment?

Unfortunately, the whole idea of visiting your spouse during deployment is highly unlikely. There's a reason the military isn't sending you with them! If you were to be truly flexible enough to jump on a plane whenever your spouse says “Go,” you would still have a horribly priced plane ticket.
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Does military pay go up when you have a baby?

The military does not pay people more money because they have dependents. There is no increase in pay for getting married, or for having children. Base pay is base pay, period.
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Do military wives get benefits?

Health and Child Care Benefits

In addition to base pay, military spouses receive something similar to shared healthcare insurance. As a civilian or military spouse, you will have access to Tricare, which is the military's healthcare service.
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Do Army wives travel with their husbands?

Opportunities to Travel

Throughout your husband's time in the military, you'll have plenty of opportunities to travel. What is this? Depending on the deployment, you may be able to visit them overseas during a holiday like 4th of July for example.
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What do military wives do for work?

There are a wide range of roles that military spouses can explore in Health Care & Social Assistance; a few potential job functions include becoming a nurse, therapist, health caregiver, dental hygienist, pharmacy technician or medical assisting personnel. Educational Services.
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Do dual military couples both get BAH?

In general, dual military couples without dependents each receive single BAH. A military member cannot get BAH with dependents unless they have a dependent. Another military member cannot be considered a dependent since they are entitled to their own benefits.
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Do you have to wear your military uniform when you get married?

Some people love their uniforms and are proud to wear it. Others, however, find them uncomfortable and want to wear something else on their wedding day. The service member can choose to wear a civilian tuxedo or wedding dress. It is not an official military event, so a uniform is optional.
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Do military spouses get free college?

Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society Education Assistance Program: The NMCRS Education Assistance Program offers interest-free loans and grants ranging from $500 to $3,000 per academic year to spouses of active-duty and retired service members for undergraduate programs at an accredited two- or four-year institution.
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Does the Army pay to move your wife?

The military will pay them to relocate their family and their belongings to the new station. A PCS move can be stressful and exhausting, but it is a regular occurrence for most military families.
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Can a military spouse get in trouble for cheating?

What sort of punishment do soldiers face for cheating on their spouses? The military penalty remains pretty harsh: up to a year in confinement plus a dishonorable discharge, which entails the forfeiture of all retirement pay.
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What is the 10 10 Rule military?

Here is a brief description of the “10/10 rule”: If the marriage lasted 10 years and the service member or former service member served at least 10 years in the military during that marriage, then the former spouse shall receive those pension benefits from the Defense Finance and Accounting Service (DFAS).
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What is the 20/20 rule for military?

All three criteria must be met for you to have access to the same benefits as your military spouse: Must have been married for at least 20 years. Spouse must have served in the military for at least 20 years. 20 years of the marriage must overlap 20 years of the spouse's military service.
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