What frustrates INTJs?

They are often plagued by loneliness and a sense of imbalance. When an INTJ's intuition is repressed or discouraged, they tend to make poor decisions based on insufficient information. This tends to happen when INTJs are forced to be more extroverted than they actually are.
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What do INTJs get annoyed by?

A lack of logical reasoning

I get really annoyed by people who say, “I just like it,” with a shrug. Someone once commented, “You need to have a reason for everything, don't you?” to which I was somewhat hurt due to their tone.
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What makes INTJ frustrated?

One of the most frustrating things for the INTJ personality type, is dealing with ignorant or inefficient people. They understand if people are unaware of certain things, but when they are unwilling to learn or change it becomes extremely frustrating for them.
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What makes an INTJ stressed?

Having to focus too heavily on the sensory world, or being exposed to too much sensory stimulation can cause the INTJ to have a grip stress reaction. Other things that can cause a grip reaction include: not getting enough alone time, being exposed to excess noise, confusion, or having a lack of direction.
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What drives an INTJ crazy?

Here's Who Drives an INTJ Crazy:

They want to know all about you, every nitty-gritty detail. They seem warm and friendly on the outside. But what others fail to realize, and what you are so acutely aware of, is that everything they do is for validation and admiration.
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What are INTJs afraid of?

INTJs are always considering the future, trying to see things from many perspectives and uncover knowledge. Dealing with mental struggles and being unable to have control of one's own mind was a major source of fear for most of them.
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Is INTJ a psychopath?

If someone is a psychopath it means that they have ASPD (Anti-Social Personality Disorder). From what I understand, a psychopath cannot be an INTJ. To clarify, a person cannot simultaneously have a personality disorder and a normal personality (by normal I mean one of the 16 Meyer-Briggs types).
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What do INTJ do when upset?

INTJs were ranked third-lowest as the type most likely to get upset or angry and show it. When I spoke with INTJs about this, most responded by saying that they preferred to deal with stress or anger in other ways. Getting alone and away from people was the most preferred way of coping with stress.
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What is the dark side of an INTJ?

When the INTJ uses Fe instead of their natural Fi, they become far more defensive of themselves and their actions. They might struggle to really take responsibility, finding outside excuses to answer their reasoning. They become more concerned with group harmony, but this can cause the INTJ to doubt themselves.
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What does an unhealthy INTJ look like?

Unhealthy INTJs tend to find emotionally demonstrative, exuberant people annoying. They often struggle to trust them and wonder if they have ulterior motives. They may enjoy knocking these types down a peg or condescending to them instead of approaching them with an open mind.
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What does a stressed INTJ look like?

INTJs under stress will become overly focused on a singular vision. Usually, this has to do with work or a key goal you want to accomplish. You'll also be unable to accept help or input, thinking your way is the only way.
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Are INTJs short tempered?

While the INTJ does strive to be patient, they can become easily frustrated by others. They need to have plenty of time to themselves in order to feel energized, which is why being around others can really push the INTJs buttons. They can have a somewhat short fuse, especially with ignorant or obnoxious people.
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Are INTJs prone to anxiety?

INTJs under stress

An INTJ will typically become stressed in the situations shown in this MBTI type head illustration. In these circumstances you may feel physically stressed and intensely angry, with an obsessive focus on certain details and a tendency to overindulge.
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What are INTJs weaknesses?

INTJ Weaknesses

They may be arrogant and condescending, as well as impatient with people who don't catch on as quickly as they'd like. With those who demonstrate less ability to think logically and rationally, they may be particularly judgmental and intolerant. Emotional Distance.
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Do INTJs like talking on the phone?

I've dated three INTJs (two long term, last one for less than a year) and they all seemed to love talking on the phone. With each one we'd talk for hours, and they were persistent about calling daily (one multiple times a day), or at least every other day while we were apart.
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Are INTJs sensitive to criticism?

While INTJs can handle certain criticism, they don't feel it is smart to be around people who feel the need to constantly criticize and waste their time and energy. Most INTJs are great at dealing with criticism because they can separate the constructive comments from people just attempting to be harmful.
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What is the darkest personality type?

Dark personality traits include psychopathy, machiavellianism and narcissism, collectively called the "dark triad".
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Are INTJ sociopaths?

INTJs are infamous for their lack of concern for anyone's feelings. It's not that we're actually sociopaths, incapable of understanding human emotion, it's just that we don't think what we say should bother anyone.
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How do you hurt an INTJ?

INTJs are rather sensitive to certain actions, or signs of betrayal. If someone goes behind their back or does not defend them when they are being talked about poorly, the INTJ will be extremely hurt by this. When they let someone close they want that person to remain loyal to that connection and relationship.
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How do INTJs handle emotions?

Since INTJs don't focus on emotions as much as others might, it can be difficult for them when these emotions do surface. While INTJs do feel things deeply, that doesn't mean they focus on these emotions. They often prefer to find justification for their feelings, and tie them to more logical processes and thoughts.
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How INTJ handle conflict?

If conflicts arise, INTJs can minimize them by:
  • Providing a listening ear rather than simply trying to solve the problem. ...
  • Instead of offering your blunt opinion in another person's conflict, offer some advice for how both parties can communicate and see each other's side.
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What are INTJ females like?

Women who identify with the INTJ personality type are typically independent, confident and happy alone. They are goal-oriented and are constantly working on personal and professional projects. But in a group, they tend to navigate the territory differently from other women.
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How can you tell a female INTJ?

An INTJ woman can be identified by her pet peeves.

INTJs are all about efficiency—they want to get things working as quickly as possible, and are impatient with anyone or anything getting in the way. Disorganization, mindless rule-following, and micromanaging are all things that can get an INTJ woman really upset.
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Are INTJs impulsive?

INTJs are not impulsive people, and prefer to really think things through before walking into them. They can become frustrated with other people who simply make decisions impulsively, since it leads to many mistakes. INTJs would rather think things through and take a lot of time to properly plan for their future.
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