What does an Enneagram 9 need in a relationship?

They care about being supportive of their partner and want them to always feel safe and loved. Their desire to create peace in their environment is definitely something which exists in their relationships as well.

Who Should an Enneagram Type 9 marry?

Type Nines commonly pair well with Ones, Twos.

In a Nine-One partnership, Ones hugely benefit from the easygoing nature of the Nine. Ones suffer from an intense inner critic, and the gentle, agreeable Nine can reduce their anxiety about always having to be right.

How do you show love to an Enneagram 9?

Don't take too personally: Their tendency to be overly nice or flattering. To create rapport: Step forward to make contact; give approval or appreciation. Try to avoid: Hurting their feelings by being too critical or not taking them seriously. Join them: In valuing warmth, personal contact and partnership.

Who are Enneagram 9s most compatible with?

Enter: Type 9s. The Peacemaker, a Type 9 will support and accept a Type 3 for who they are — while also encouraging them to tap into a deeper well of self-awareness and vulnerability.

How does an Enneagram 9 flirt?

Nine's often flirt by showing that they are there for the person they care about. They give their support and will do just about anything to make them happy or see them smile.

Enneagram: In Relationship With Type 9

Are Enneagram 9s romantic?

Enneagram 9s in Romantic Relationships

Type 9s tend to be wallflowers, and potential romantic prospects may be drawn to flashier, more gregarious types initially. However, once people get to know Type 9s, they're attracted to their calm, caring personalities.

What is an Enneagram 9 love language?

Easygoing, agreeable Nines crave a meaningful, harmonious connection with their partners. And the best way for them to build that is through quality time.

What makes an Enneagram 9 happy?

Happiness for Enneagram Type Nines

- Reflecting the identity of others instead of staying true to their own self. - 'Going with the flow' rather than taking ownership of their own life.

What makes an Enneagram 9 angry?

In general, 8s, 9s, and 1s — the body type — tend to get angry when they see injustice, and when they feel like people are trying to control them, but this is expressed in different ways.

What does an Enneagram 9 go to in stress?

Type 9 Under Stress

When 9s are stressed, they first dip into their unhealthy traits as a 9 (indecisive, passive aggressive, forgetful). However, after that level, if they are still stressed or the stress increases they will move towards type 6 and pick up the average to unhealthy traits of 6.

What is the most difficult Enneagram type?

Enneagram Type Fours are self-aware, sensitive and reserved, and they may be the hardest type to understand. They are deeply in touch with their own emotions, as well as empathetic and understanding of others' feelings. To anyone who isn't a Four, they can seem distant, unsociable and moody.

Which Enneagram is the rarest?

According to an Enneagram Population Distribution study, the rarest Enneagram is Type 8: The Challenger. Next comes the Investigator (Type 5), followed by the Helper (Type 2). The most common is the Peacemaker (Type 9).