What benefits do I get if I marry a retired military man?

When you marry an active duty or retired service member, you become entitled to military benefits, including TRICARE. Your sponsor must register you in the Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System (DEERS).
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What are the benefits of marrying a retired veteran?

Benefits for spouses, dependents, and survivors
  • Health care. ...
  • Education and training. ...
  • Employment. ...
  • Home loan programs or financial counseling. ...
  • Life insurance options, claims, and beneficiary assistance. ...
  • Pre-need eligibility determination for burial in a VA national cemetery. ...
  • Burial benefits and memorial items. ...
  • Survivors Pension.
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How long do you have to be married to a veteran to get his benefits?

The veteran must have received an honorable discharge. To qualify for most benefits, the spouse must have been married to the veteran for at least a year. In some cases, if the spouse of a veteran remarries, benefits may be terminated.
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Is my wife entitled to my military retirement?

Even if you were married for less than a year, a court may award a share of your military retired pay to them. However, if you were in a long-term military marriage that overlapped with a lengthy period of service, then your former spouse may be entitled to as much as 50% of your military pension.
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What benefits do I get if I marry a military man?

Military marriages come with benefits.

As a military spouse, you have access to career and education support, non-medical counseling, financial benefits and much more. All free and available 24/7.
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How much do military wives get paid?

To answer your question, there is no stipend, no monetary benefits for military spouses. Service members can choose to give a monthly allotment to a spouse or whoever, but the money is deducted from their own pay. It does not come from the Department of the Army or Department of Defense.
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What is military marriage pay?

According to LAWeekly.com, an unmarried private in the Army earns a monthly salary of about $1,350. However, if he gets married, his monthly salary increases to about $1,800.
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Do I still get my ex husband's military retirement if I remarry?

A former spouse who remarries before age 55 loses SBP eligibility; however, if the marriage ends in death, divorce, or annulment, eligibility is reinstated. A former spouse who remarries after age 55 does not lose eligibility.
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How much of my military retirement does my ex wife get?

The maximum amount of pension income an ex-spouse can receive is 50% of the military retirement pay. Once the order is filed with DFAS, it will take three months (90 days) for the direct payments to begin if the ex-spouse is already receiving their pension.
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Will I lose my ex husband's retirement if I remarry?

You cannot claim divorced-spouse benefits tied to a living former mate if you are married. If you began drawing such ex-spousal benefits when you were single but then remarry, those payments will be terminated (except as noted below). You are required to report changes in marital status to Social Security.
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Do wives of veterans get benefits?

As a spouse of a veteran you may be eligible for: VA Education Benefits. Readjustment Counseling. Educational and Career Counseling.
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Can ex wife claim my military pension years after divorce?

To collect under the USFSPA, a former spouse must have been awarded a portion of the Servicemember's military retirement pay as property in their final divorce decree. The USFSPA allows the court to treat the military retirement pension just as it would a civilian pension plan.
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What is the 10 10 10 rule in the military?

There is something known as the 10/10 rule in such divorces. The 10/10 rule allows former spouses of military members to receive a portion of the ex's military retirement pay. This is paid directly from the Defense Finance and Accounting Service and is court-ordered in military divorce cases.
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Does a spouse lose VA benefits if she remarries?

Under 38 CFR 3.50, in order to qualify as a surviving spouse for Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) purposes, a person must be unmarried. Therefore, a surviving spouse who remarries is no longer eligible to receive VA benefits.
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Do you get paid more if married?

But while many people are aware that wages often vary by race and gender, economic data show that earnings can also vary by relationship status. Married people tend to earn more, with married men making more than their spouses, and especially more than the unwed.
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Do you get extra pay for being married in the military?

Although not known as "military marriage pay," service members do receive a pay increase as part of their housing and cost-of-living allowances after they get married.
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Do military spouses get free college?

Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society Education Assistance Program: The NMCRS Education Assistance Program offers interest-free loans and grants ranging from $500 to $3,000 per academic year to spouses of active-duty and retired service members for undergraduate programs at an accredited two- or four-year institution.
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What happens if a military spouse cheats?

What sort of punishment do soldiers face for cheating on their spouses? The military penalty remains pretty harsh: up to a year in confinement plus a dishonorable discharge, which entails the forfeiture of all retirement pay.
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What benefits will I lose if I get married?

To receive SSDI, you have to fit the Social Security Administration's (SSA's) definition of disability, but you can be unmarried or married. Getting married won't ever effect SSDI benefits that you collect based on your own disability and your own earnings record.
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Which wife gets the Social Security?

Generally, the same payment rules apply to divorced wives and widows as to current wives and widows. That means most divorced women collect their own Social Security while the ex is alive, but they can apply for higher widow's rates when the ex dies.
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Do married couples get 2 Social Security checks?

Not when it comes to each spouse's own benefit. Both can receive retirement payments based on their respective earnings records and the age when they claimed benefits. One payment does not offset or affect the other.
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Does a wife get 50 of husband's Social Security?

You can receive up to 50% of your spouse's Social Security benefit. You can apply for benefits if you have been married for at least one year. If you have been divorced for at least two years, you can apply if the marriage lasted 10 or more years.
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Can a wife draw husband's Social Security while he is alive?

number 5 below). wives and widows. That means most divorced women collect their own Social Security while the ex is alive, but can apply for higher widow's rates when he dies. benefit on your record if you die before he does.
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What changes when you get married financially?

Marriage affects your finances in many ways, including your ability to build wealth, plan for retirement, plan your estate, and capitalize on tax and insurance-related benefits. State and federal laws on these subjects provide default positions.
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Do I have to tell Social Security I get married?

If you are legally changing your name, you need to apply for a replacement Social Security card reflecting your new name. If you're working, also tell your employer. That way, Social Security can keep track of your earnings history as you go about living your wonderful new life.
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