What age do you talk to your daughter about puberty?

If you haven't already, start the talk early.
By the time a girl is 8 years old, she should know what bodily changes are associated with puberty. That may seem young, but consider this: some early bloomers are already wearing training bras at that age.
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When should I talk about puberty to my daughter?

Talk to your kids about the changes their bodies will go through as they grow. Some girls start puberty at 8 years old, and some boys do by 9. So you may need to start these talks earlier than you think. Discuss the physical and emotional changes that come with puberty before they begin.
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What grade do you talk about puberty?

From ages 6 to 9, kids are old enough to understand puberty, so parents can start teaching boys the basics of the changes they should expect. It's much easier to have this conversation before age 9 because pre-pubertal kids are usually curious and willing to listen and learn.
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How do I teach my daughter about puberty?

Here are 10 ways mothers can help prepare their daughters for puberty.
  1. Do your homework. ...
  2. Set a good example. ...
  3. Find ways to start the conversation. ...
  4. Use other resources. ...
  5. Make sure it's a two-way conversation. ...
  6. Don't make assumptions. ...
  7. Reassure them that they're normal. ...
  8. Keep it positive.
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How do I talk to my 10 year old about puberty?

Tips on Discussing Puberty with Your Kids
  1. Use actual body part language for genitals. ...
  2. Keep things short when talking to younger children.
  3. Use day-to-day situations to trigger conversations. ...
  4. Don't wait to have “the talk”. ...
  5. Puberty is a normal part of growing up. ...
  6. Fake it until you make it.
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Talking to Kids About... Puberty



What are the first signs of puberty in a girl?

When your daughter starts to go through puberty, her gonads (ovaries) and adrenal glands (glands that sit on top of the kidneys) release hormones. These hormones cause the first signs of puberty, which are breast development, body odor, underarm hair, pubic hair and acne (pimples).
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How long after pubic hair does a period start?

Growing pubic hair: Just after your breasts start to form, you'll probably start growing pubic hair. It will be soft and thin at first, but it'll get coarser over time. Your period usually arrives around one to two years after.
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How do I know if my daughter is getting her first period?

Most of the time, a girl gets her period about 2 years after her breasts start to develop. Another sign is vaginal discharge fluid (sort of like mucus) that a girl might see or feel on her underwear. This discharge usually begins about 6 months to a year before a girl gets her first period.
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How do I talk to my daughter about wearing a bra?

Instead of blunt statements such as “you need a bra!” suggestions like “I was around your age when I first started wearing a bra, we should buy some for you soon” can help your daughter feel more relaxed and less alone.
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Do you learn about puberty in 5th grade?

Yes, fifth graders are typically 10 and 11 years old. However, they have many characteristics that make it important to teach them about the changes they will experience, or are already experiencing, as they move through puberty on their way to adulthood.
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What should I expect from my 11 year old daughter?

At 11, your daughter will likely start spending more time with friends and less time with your family. They may start to assert their own identity and push back against your authority, leading to potential conflicts.
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How do you explain to a 7 year old where babies come from?

You could give a simple explanation like 'Babies grow in a place inside their mother called the uterus'. If you're pregnant your child might ask, 'Where does the baby come out? ' Give a simple but accurate answer like 'Your little sister is growing in my uterus.
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How do you explain wet dreams to a 10 year old?

“(Explain that the child) is growing from being a boy to a man, what happens and that it's nothing to be ashamed of.” A good method is to use easier topics like body odor and deodorant or excess hair and shaving to start and work up to wet dreams and other sex-related topics from there. “Normalize it.
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How do you explain to an 11 year old how babies are made?

How to begin talking to your grade-schooler about how babies are made
  1. Follow your child's lead.
  2. Ask, then tell.
  3. Use the correct language.
  4. Tell a story.
  5. Be matter-of-fact.
  6. "How does a baby get in there?" A sweet and simple explanation will satisfy many children.
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What triggers a girl's first period?

The first period typically occurs after a female first ovulates. This happens when the ovaries release an egg into the fallopian tube. When this happens, the womb lining thickens in preparation for the egg to be fertilized. If fertilization does not occur, the lining sheds, as the body no longer needs it.
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What can I give my daughter for her first period?

To help your daughter feel ready, buy a small zippered pouch and stock it with a couple of teen-size sanitary pads and a clean pair of underwear, Natterson says. Tell your daughter to keep the pouch with them at all times, and keep one with you, too, just in case.
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What are the signs my 11 year old is getting her period?

When your child's period is coming, they might have a range of physical symptoms, including sore breasts, pimples and greasy hair. Your child might also have a sore tummy, feel sick or have diarrhoea. Period pain and these associated symptoms are common.
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Is 10 years old too early for period?

When Do Most Girls Get Their Period? Most girls get their first period when they're around 12. But getting it any time between age 10 and 15 is OK. Every girl's body has its own schedule.
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How do I talk to my daughter about periods?

Talk early and often

Don't plan a single tell-all discussion. Instead, plan on a series of conversations. If your child asks questions about menstruation, answer them openly and honestly. If your child isn't asking questions, it's up to you to start talking about menstruation.
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What do breast buds look like?

Breast buds are small disc-shaped rubbery lumps felt under the nipple. They are always normal. Nothing else looks like them. Breast buds have no risk of turning into cancer.
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Is it normal for a 9 year old to have pubic hair?

Hormonal basis

It is normal for production of these hormones to increase (something we call adrenarche) and for pubic hair to appear after age 8 in girls or 9 in boys. The reason why this increase occurs earlier in some children is not known.
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What are the consequences of early puberty?

Apart from just cutting a girl's physical childhood short, early puberty is linked to consequences that can reverberate throughout her life. It's linked to greater risk for breast cancer, teen pregnancy, HPV, heart disease, diabetes, and all-cause mortality, which is the risk of dying from any cause.
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At what age do you talk to your daughter about the birds and the bees?

The sooner you start (age five isn't too young) the better, because they'll come to expect these conversations and learn you are their go-to birds and bees source. Another important fact is that kids who have open communication with their parents about sexuality are offered some protection from sexual abuse.
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What should you not say to your child?

19 things you should never say to kids
  • “I'm proud of you” Dr. ...
  • “Good job!” Love something your child did? ...
  • “You should set a good example for your brother” ...
  • “Wait until your father/mother gets home” ...
  • “I will never forgive you” ...
  • “I'm ashamed of you” ...
  • “Don't worry, everything will be OK” ...
  • “Here, I'll do it”
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