Should you tell your therapist you Googled them?

Googling a therapist can raise feelings of guilt for some clients, and I think that it is useful in therapy to discuss the relationship as openly as you feel able. I would suggest that having a conversation with your therapist around your internet search could be a great opportunity for good work in therapy.
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Do therapists ever Google their clients?

Do therapists Google their patients? Short answer: yes. A new study published on January 15 in the Journal of Clinical Psychology finds that 86% of the therapists interviewed by the study's authors say they sometimes do look up their patients on the Internet.
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What should you not tell a therapist?

With that said, we're outlining some common phrases that therapists tend to hear from their clients and why they might hinder your progress.
  • “I feel like I'm talking too much.” ...
  • “I'm the worst. ...
  • “I'm sorry for my emotions.” ...
  • “I always just talk about myself.” ...
  • “I can't believe I told you that!” ...
  • “Therapy won't work for me.”
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Do people look up their therapist?

Regarding TTG, previous research shows that 54.6% of therapists were aware of being researched online or were content with the notion of TTG [7]. This study supports this result with similar findings; 44% of patients researched their therapists, 80.2% of these searches were conducted online.
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Should I tell my therapist I find her attractive?

If you're seeing a therapist, experts suggest these strategies to maintain a healthy relationship with him or her: Be completely honest and transparent. If you start developing feelings for your therapist, tell him or her about it. “Be honest with yourself and with your therapist,” Scharf says.
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Therapist answers commonly googled questions about therapy



Do therapists get crushes on patients?

Of the 585 psychologists who responded, 87% (95% of the men and 76% of the women) reported having been sexually attracted to their clients, at least on occasion. Sixty-three percent felt guilty, anxious or confused about the attraction, and about half of the respondents received no guidance or training on this issue.
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Do therapists fantasize about clients?

According to new research, 72 percent of therapists surveyed felt friendship toward their clients. 70 percent of therapists had felt sexually attracted to a client at some point; 25 percent fantasized about having a romantic relationship.
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Is it weird to Google your therapist?

There are a number of reasons why you may Google a therapist – it may be as part of a screening process as you are selecting a therapist, it may be out of curiosity about your counsellor, or it might be part of a desire for connection between sessions, especially where attachment is a consideration.
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Do therapists have Favourite clients?

Therapists don't feel only love for their clients. Therapists love their clients in various ways, at various times. And yes, I'm sure there must be some therapists out there who never love their clients. But love is around in the therapy relationship, a lot more than we might think or recognise.
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Can a therapist and client be friends?

Client-therapist friendships can be unethical, according to codes of ethics from many bodies that govern therapists, including the American Psychological Association [APA]. By becoming friends with a client, a therapist can risk disciplinary action from governing bodies or losing licensure.
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Can I tell my therapist about intrusive thoughts?

Tell your therapist about your thoughts, because they've heard much “stranger” and “more alarming” things before. (There are quotation marks because they probably won't think you're strange or see any reason to become alarmed.)
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How do you tell if your therapist is attracted to you?

So, to answer the question, “Is my therapist attracted to me?”– the context of their actions is crucial. The actions may include a shift in boundaries, such as allowing sessions to go overtime or taking your calls between sessions, or if they appear to seek out opportunities to touch you deliberately.
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Can a therapist tell if you are lying?

Your therapist can't read your mind, so they may not always know for certain when you lie. That said, plenty of cues in your speech and body language can alert your therapist to dishonesty. They might notice things like unnecessary or embellished details, or changes in your story from session to session.
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Is it ethical to Google patients?

Googling a patient is not, in and of itself, unethical. First and foremost, the Googling of a patient should be done only in the interests of promoting patient care and well-being and never to satisfy the curiosity or other needs of the psychiatrist.
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Can therapists follow clients on social media?

There's no ethics code that explicitly forbids accepting such a request, but guidelines from the American Psychological Association and experts in mental health ethics recommend against having clients as Facebook friends. People often use social media accounts to share very revealing information about themselves.
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What do therapists notice about their clients?

* I notice how their breathing (rapid, slow, holding their breath) and changes in skin color, cheeks get pinker/face gets paler. * I notice facial expressions like smiling, laughing, crying, etc. As a therapist, there are many useful non-verbal messages that can be helpful to better understand your clients.
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Do therapists cry over their clients?

Research asking patients what they think about their therapists' tears is scant. In a 2015 study in Psychotherapy, researchers Ashley Tritt, MD, Jonathan Kelly, and Glenn Waller, PhD, surveyed 188 patients with eating disorders and found that about 57 percent had experienced their therapists crying.
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Why do therapists mirror you?

Your counselor mirrors you so that you feel comfortable and understood (and, for many therapists, matching your tone and speed helps them understand better). Mirroring body language in counseling is one of the first skills your therapist probably learned.
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Is it unethical for a therapist to Google a client?

Most therapists agree that Googling a patient before an appointment is discouraged and could constitute an ethical violation, but safety concerns can lead some to take pre-emptive measures.
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How do therapists spot transference?

A therapist can gain insight into a client's thought patterns and behavior through transference if they can identify when it is happening and understand where it is coming from. Transference usually happens because of behavioral patterns created within a childhood relationship.
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Do therapist text their patients?

Many therapists use texting to schedule sessions with clients. But beyond that, professionals are divided as to whether it's a good idea to text clients between sessions about issues that are bridged in therapy itself.
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What to do when you're attracted to a client?

Yikes, I'm Attracted to My Client
  1. Openly Explore the Issue with the Client. ...
  2. Referrals Happen. ...
  3. Stay with Your Discomfort. ...
  4. This is Countertransference 101. ...
  5. Keep the Therapeutic Relationship in Check.
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Do therapists ever date clients?

The American Psychological Association Code of Ethics, Section 10.05, states that psychologists do not engage in sexual intimacies with current therapy clients/patients. The American Counseling Association Code of Ethics, Section A.
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Do therapist miss their clients?

So yes, we as therapists do talk about our clients (clinically) and we do miss our clients because we have entered into this field because we remain hopeful for others. I pray that other therapists go into the mental health field because they want to help people become the best versions of themselves that they can be.
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