Should you tell a child they have ADHD?

If your child has ADHD, it's important to talk with him about it. "It's never too early to start talking with your child about his ADHD," says Patricia Collins, PhD, director of the Psychoeducational Clinic at North Carolina State University.
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What should you not say to a child with ADHD?

  • “Having ADHD isn't an excuse.” ...
  • “Everyone gets distracted sometimes.” ...
  • “ADHD will make you more creative.” ...
  • “If you can focus on fun things, you can focus on work.” ...
  • “You'll outgrow ADHD.” ...
  • “Nobody needs to know you have ADHD.”
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How do you explain to a child with ADHD?

Help kids understand that having ADHD is not their fault, and that they can learn ways to improve the problems it causes. Spend special time together every day. Make time to talk and enjoy relaxing, fun activities with your child — even if it's just for a few minutes. Give your child your full attention.
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What to do if I believe my child has ADHD?

If you suspect that your child might have it, start with a visit to their pediatrician. It's especially helpful to see a doctor who has special training to diagnose and treat ADHD and learning disabilities. Or you might be referred to a mental health professional, like a psychiatrist or psychologist.
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At what age can you tell if your child has ADHD?

How early is too early to tell if your toddler or preschooler might have ADHD? Most children aren't checked for ADHD until they're school age, but kids as young as 4 can be diagnosed, according to guidelines set by the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP). At that age, many kids are active and impulsive.
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Explaining to your child they have ADHD



What are the 3 main symptoms of ADHD?

The 3 categories of symptoms of ADHD include the following:
  • Inattention: Short attention span for age (difficulty sustaining attention) Difficulty listening to others. ...
  • Impulsivity: Often interrupts others. ...
  • Hyperactivity: Seems to be in constant motion; runs or climbs, at times with no apparent goal except motion.
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What age does ADHD peak?

The symptoms of hyperactivity are typically most severe at age 7 to 8, gradually declining thereafter. Peak severity of impulsive behaviour is usually at age 7 or 8. There is no specific age of peak severity for inattentive behaviour.
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What are the 9 symptoms of ADHD?

Symptoms
  • Impulsiveness.
  • Disorganization and problems prioritizing.
  • Poor time management skills.
  • Problems focusing on a task.
  • Trouble multitasking.
  • Excessive activity or restlessness.
  • Poor planning.
  • Low frustration tolerance.
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What does mild ADHD look like?

Many children affected by ADHD can also have mild delays in language, motor skills or social development that are not part of ADHD but often co-occur. They tend to have low frustration tolerance, difficulty controlling their emotions and often experience mood swings.
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Do kids grow out of ADHD?

Many children (perhaps as many as half) will outgrow their symptoms but others do not, so ADHD can affect a person into adulthood.
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How do I tell my child They have ADHD?

These 8 tips can help:
  1. DO make sure your child feels loved and accepted. ...
  2. DO pick the discussion time wisely. ...
  3. DO let your child know he's not alone. ...
  4. DON'T expect instant interest. ...
  5. DO learn more about ADHD. ...
  6. DON'T focus on the negative. ...
  7. DON'T let your kid use his ADHD as an excuse. ...
  8. DO maintain open communication.
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Is it my fault my child has ADHD?

You're not alone: Many people believe that bad parenting causes the condition. Don't blame yourself. ADHD is a brain disorder. While the exact cause isn't clear, scientists know that many things may play a role, including many that are beyond a parent's control, like genes and low birth weight.
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Does ADHD go away with age?

Although certain symptoms may fade with age, ADHD can be a lifelong problem. And some people aren't diagnosed with ADHD until they're adults. It's important for all grownups with ADHD to have treatment for it. If not, they're more likely to have employment problems.
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Is ADHD mental retardation?

Abstract. Introduction: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a common condition in children with mental retardation (MR), with a prevalence rate of between 4 and 15%.
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Can a teacher tell a parent their child has ADHD?

According to Dr. Bauer, yes. Even if the child does not ultimately have ADHD, the teacher has made the right decision by alerting the parents to an issue. “Sometimes I see children because a teacher has raised concern about how the child is functioning or behaving in class, which may or may not be ADHD,” Dr.
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Can a child with ADHD be good at school?

Ask if your child is having any problems in school, including on the playground. Find out if your child can get any special services to help with learning. Children with ADD/ADHD are capable of appropriate classroom behavior, but they need structure and clear expectations in order to keep their symptoms in check.
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Is ADHD a serious mental illness?

Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a severe mental illness, associated with major impairment and a high comorbidity rate. Particularly undiagnosed ADHD in adulthood has serious consequences. Thus, a valid diagnosis is important.
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What is masking in ADHD?

1. ADHD masking may also be called "camouflaging." This is when someone with ADHD tries to cover up their symptoms by copying the behaviors of people who don't have it. ADHD masking may be a way for some people with ADHD to fit in socially, avoid being stigmatized, or feel more accepted.
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What happens if ADHD goes undiagnosed?

Adults who have ADHD but do not know it are at much higher risk than the general population for serious problems. Mood disorders, extreme sadness, and anxiety often occur when ADHD goes undiagnosed. Even if these conditions are are treated, the underlying problem, if left untreated, leads to other problems.
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Is ADHD on the autism spectrum?

Autism spectrum disorder and ADHD are related in several ways. ADHD is not on the autism spectrum, but they have some of the same symptoms. And having one of these conditions increases the chances of having the other. Experts have changed the way they think about how autism and ADHD are related.
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Is ADHD a disability?

Yes. Whether you view attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) as neurological — affecting how the brain concentrates or thinks — or consider ADHD as a disability that impacts working, there is no question that the federal Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) covers individuals with ADHD.
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Are you born with ADHD?

So, are you born with ADHD? Yes, the disorder tends to run in families – but you may not display the symptoms throughout your whole life. Being born with ADHD is known to have its limiting factors, but with support in managing your symptoms, you can expect to see great improvements.
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Does ADHD get worse as child gets older?

Does ADHD get worse with age? Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) typically does not get worse with age if a person is aware of their symptoms and knows how to manage them.
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Why do so many kids have ADHD?

Today many sociologists and neuroscientists believe that regardless of A.D.H.D.'s biological basis, the explosion in rates of diagnosis is caused by sociological factors — especially ones related to education and the changing expectations we have for kids.
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What does ADHD look like in a 7 year old?

Signs of ADHD in children

trouble focusing on activities and becoming easily distracted. low attention span while playing or doing schoolwork. fidgeting, squirming, or otherwise having trouble sitting still. constantly needing movement or frequently running around.
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