Is saying can I help you rude?

It sounds very polite, but it's often a euphemism for What are you doing here? or something else. Here's an article I found on Forbes: The Absolute Worst Question To Ask: How Can I Help You?
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Is it rude to say can you?

-> They both are impolite. They both sound like a command/order. The first one is less rude than the second one.
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What to say instead of how can I help you?

Because you need to choose your words wisely, these alternatives make it easy to be there.
  1. Is there anything you need? ...
  2. Can I get you anything? ...
  3. Can I bring some food or groceries to your family? ...
  4. Do you want me to take care of that for you? ...
  5. Do you need someone to talk to? ...
  6. Would you like to be alone?
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Is it rude to say what do you want?

If you say to someone 'what do you want? ', you are asking them in a rather rude or angry way why they have come to the place where you are or why they want to speak to you. 'What do you want!' she whispered savagely.
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What do you mean is it rude?

adjective, rud·er, rud·est. discourteous or impolite, especially in a deliberate way: a rude reply. without culture, learning, or refinement: rude, illiterate peasants. rough in manners or behavior; unmannerly; uncouth. rough, harsh, or ungentle: rude hands.
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How do you say rude in a nice way?

Synonyms
  1. rude. adjective. not polite.
  2. impolite. adjective. not polite.
  3. insolent. adjective. rude, especially when you should be showing respect.
  4. churlish. adjective. ...
  5. impudent. adjective. ...
  6. impertinent. adjective. ...
  7. ill-mannered. adjective. ...
  8. discourteous. adjective.
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Is it rude to say nope?

The word “Nope” is not necessarily rude but some people do consider it rude in formal situations. “Nope” can sound rude if it is said in a dismissive tone.
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How do you say no politely?

How to say no in any situation – 20 phrases
  1. I appreciate the offer/invite, but I can't commit.
  2. I'm honored by the offer/invites, but can't.
  3. I'm flattered you considered me, but unfortunately I'll have to pass this time.
  4. I appreciate the offer/invite, but I am completely booked.
  5. Thank you for thinking of me, but I can't.
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How can a girl be polite?

True politeness is about so much more than holding open doors.
  1. They say “Please” and “Thank you” ...
  2. They don't touch people without permission. ...
  3. They can admit when they're wrong. ...
  4. They don't ask overly personal questions. ...
  5. They accept correction graciously. ...
  6. They make others feel comfortable. ...
  7. They don't interrupt.
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How do you politely say no to a guy?

Just say no.
  1. Don't make excuses. You don't need to lie. Unless it's true, don't tell him that you're in a relationship. ...
  2. Be straight forward, and polite. Say something like, "You seem like a nice guy, but I just don't like you that way. ...
  3. Keep it short. You don't need to give a long-winded rejection just to seem nice.
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Can I help you formal?

"Can I help you?" is a perfectly acceptable way to offer help to a person, for which the formal equivalent is "May I help you?" The latter is also politer way to offer help.
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What can I help you meaning?

An offer for assistance, often from a salesperson. A: "Can I help you?" B: "Yes, I'm looking for a cocktail dress." See also: can, help. Farlex Dictionary of Idioms.
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How do you politely ask for help?

General phrases for introducing a request for help
  1. “Could/Would you do me a favor?” — ...
  2. “Could I ask / bother you / trouble you…” — ...
  3. “Can you give me a hand with this?” — ...
  4. “Lend me a hand with this, will you?” — ...
  5. “Could you help me for a second?” — ...
  6. “Can I ask a favor?” — ...
  7. “Please, could I ask you for some advice?” —
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Would you help me or could you help me?

Feel free to just provide example sentences. Would you help me is asking if the person is willing to help you. And could you help me is asking if the person is able to help to.
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Is saying how come rude?

"How come" is actually often seen as a more polite, less confrontational way of asking "why?" in standard American English. I encourage my adult ESL students to use it instead of WHY in most situations. Often when a person is asked WHY, they feel somewhat defensive, as if the person asking is challenging the action.
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Can you Vs could you?

Both are technically correct, but the "Could you" form is polite (and preferable), while the "Can you" is almost an implied command that leaves no choice to the doer.
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How do you know if a girl likes you?

Signs a Girl Likes You
  • She reschedules a date she can't make. ...
  • She makes an effort to continue the conversation. ...
  • She compliments you and tries to make you feel good. ...
  • She's clearly nervous around you. ...
  • Her body language is inviting. ...
  • She remembers things you tell her. ...
  • You catch her staring at you on multiple occasions.
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How do you talk to a rude girl?

10 Effective Ways Intelligent People Deal With Rude People
  1. Realize that rudeness is nothing new. ...
  2. Stop the spiral of rudeness. ...
  3. Don't take rudeness personally. ...
  4. React to rudeness with kindness. ...
  5. Use humor to defuse a difficult person. ...
  6. Call the person out on his or her behavior. ...
  7. Don't escalate. ...
  8. Show empathy and sympathy.
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Who is more polite male or female?

Abstract. Sociolinguistic research suggests that women are more likely than men to use politeness strategies in their speech.
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How do you tell someone off in a professional way?

"The best is what we call the DESC approach. Describe the situation, in detail, explaining what the problem is, and why. Make sure you have evidence to back this up. Then offer a solution - what you want them to do, and then the consequences: what will happen if they do - and don't do - as you ask."
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Is Yep rude?

7 Answers. Show activity on this post. You are correct that "yeah" and "yep" are informal variants of "yes." In conversation among friends, any form is appropriate, but "yep" has a slightly dismissive tone.
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What is correct yep or Yup?

Yep. And then we have "yup," another casual way of saying yes. The American Heritage Dictionary says that "yup" is an alteration of "yep." So one alteration of "yes" has its own alteration. I can't decide whether that's inefficient or hyper-efficient. In an oral vote, we have the yeas and the nays.
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What is meaning of Yup in chatting?

Yup is a slang word for yes and may refer to: YUP (band), a Finnish rock band. "Yup" (song), a 2015 song by Easton Corbin. Yukpa language (ISO 639:yup), spoken in Venezuela and Colombia.
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