Is it illegal to marry for military benefits?

To receive a military ID card and benefits, including health care, a military spouse must be legally married to the service member. The military does not recognize common law marriage or engagements. Registering a spouse for benefits is free.
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Can you get in trouble for marrying for Bah?

Finally, entering into a sham wedding for the purposes of collecting BAH, could result in criminal charges for fraud against the United States. No one should enter into a marriage lightly. Wanting to move off base or to collect BAH is no reason to get married.
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How long do you have to be married to a military person to get benefits?

In order to be eligible to continue receiving benefits, a 20/20/20 ex-spouse must provide proof that the military spouse provided at least 20 creditable years of service, was married to their spouse for at least 20 years, and that the marriage was concurrent with the service.
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Does military accept common law marriage?

In the military's view, a common-law marriage is considered an "informal marriage." Despite this title, the military generally recognizes a common-law marriage as valid if it is acknowledged as a valid marriage in the state where it occurred.
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Can a military member marry another military member?

Mil-to-mil marriages are when one servicemember marries another servicemember. Dual military couples are a lot more common than one might think. They make up about 7% of all active duty military members and about 3% of Reserve/Guard components.
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TOP 10 MILITARY SPOUSE BENEFITS!



What are the benefits of marrying someone in the military?

Many military benefits and resources are available to spouses.
  • Access to commissaries and exchanges.
  • Free gyms, libraries and other recreation opportunities.
  • Free tax services.
  • Free, confidential non-medical counseling services.
  • Help with education and career goals.
  • Military discounts.
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What happens if two military people get married?

When one military member marries another, the couple becomes a “dual military” couple, also known as mil-to-mil marriages or simply “dual military marriages”. Different branches of service may use other terms.
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Will I lose my VA benefits if I get married?

A: Once VA has recognized a marriage for the purpose of one VA benefit or service, it will usually recognize it for other benefits or services unless there is a factual change in marital status, such as divorce or separation.
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Why do military couples marry so fast?

The military's solution is to incorporate families in their entirety, and it pays the full relocation costs for each family member -- as long as they are married. This policy causes people to marry earlier than they had planned to, and sometimes to people they would not otherwise have married.
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Can a girlfriend be a military dependent?

When you marry a service member, you technically become a "dependent" (though I have yet to encounter a military spouse that I would define as dependent on anyone!). However, when you're not married to the service member, you are dependent on them for access to services that play a major role in his or her life.
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What is the 20/20 rule for military spouses?

All three criteria must be met for you to have access to the same benefits as your military spouse: Must have been married for at least 20 years. Spouse must have served in the military for at least 20 years. 20 years of the marriage must overlap 20 years of the spouse's military service.
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How much money does an Army wife get?

To answer your question, there is no stipend, no monetary benefits for military spouses. Service members can choose to give a monthly allotment to a spouse or whoever, but the money is deducted from their own pay. It does not come from the Department of the Army or Department of Defense.
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Can the wife of a Veteran get benefits?

As the spouse or dependent child of a Veteran or service member, you may qualify for certain benefits, like health care, life insurance, or money to help pay for school or training.
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What happens if you fake a marriage in the military?

For a service member, getting caught could mean federal prosecution and a sentence of up to five years in prison and up to $250,000 in fines. Under military law, the service member could also face, in severe cases, a dishonorable discharge and up to 10 years confinement.
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Is a contract marriage illegal in the military?

Still, that they happen is widely considered something of an "open secret" -- we know it's there, we just don't talk about it. No surprise, scam marriages are totally illegal. But that doesn't necessarily stop anyone from becoming part of one. It also doesn't mean that military authorities can prove they are happening.
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What happens if you get married to someone in the military?

What Do I Need To Know? If you are in the United States (not assigned overseas), getting married as a member of the military is much the same as civilian marriages. You don't need advanced permission and there is no special military paperwork to fill out before the marriage.
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Why do military marriages end in divorce?

Marriages that see longer deployments are also more likely to divorce, probably because the increased time apart eventually just becomes too much of a hardship. Finally, deployments where members see combat or weapon usage are also known to be associated with increased risk of divorce.
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Is the divorce rate higher in the military?

According to other studies, deployed military members in the U.S. Navy, Marines, Army, and Air Force have higher than average divorce rates. The Air Force had the highest rate, at 14.6 percent, with the Navy at over 12.5 percent and the other two branches as high as 8 percent.
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Is a military relationship worth it?

The pros of being in a military relationship, dating-wise, are simply that it makes the relationship stronger and makes you cherish each other a lot more. The months spent apart and the little time you get to talk makes you realize what you have and appreciate each other more than you ever thought was possible.
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Can my wife take my VA disability in a divorce?

Federal law – specifically, the Uniformed Services Former Spouses' Protection Act, found at 10 U.S.C. §1408 – exempts VA disability payments from division upon divorce. It is not an asset which can be divided at divorce as marital or community property.
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Do soldiers get paid more if married?

Although not known as "military marriage pay," service members do receive a pay increase as part of their housing and cost-of-living allowances after they get married.
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Do you have to wear your military uniform at your wedding?

Uniforms.

Some people love their uniforms and are proud to wear it. Others, however, find them uncomfortable and want to wear something else on their wedding day. The service member can choose to wear a civilian tuxedo or wedding dress. It is not an official military event, so a uniform is optional.
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Can someone in the military marry a felon?

There really is no prohibition but it has the ability and possibility to cause issues with your security clearance.
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What happens if a military spouse cheats?

What sort of punishment do soldiers face for cheating on their spouses? The military penalty remains pretty harsh: up to a year in confinement plus a dishonorable discharge, which entails the forfeiture of all retirement pay.
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Can my wife come with me on deployment?

Unfortunately, the whole idea of visiting your spouse during deployment is highly unlikely. There's a reason the military isn't sending you with them! If you were to be truly flexible enough to jump on a plane whenever your spouse says “Go,” you would still have a horribly priced plane ticket.
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