Is Delena toxic?

Many fans of the CW's popular vampire show who were dedicated shippers of "Delena" were ecstatic when they reunited in the series finale. Damon and Elena were couples goals repeatedly throughout The Vampire Diaries, but there is evidence to suggest that they were also a toxic pairing.
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Is Elena compelled to love Damon?

After being compelled by Rebekah to tell the truth, Elena reveals that she is no longer in love with Stefan and is instead in love with Damon. She later confesses this to him, stating that it's the most real thing she's ever felt.
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Is Damon abusive to Elena?

Not only that, but Damon Salvatore was nothing but cruel to Elena, her friends, and family since the start of the show. He was responsible for killing her brother, placed her in harm's way multiple times to get Katherine back, and tormented her friends when he rejected her.
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Is TVD toxic?

Though I still enjoy watching the show (and probably always will), I've come to recognize that they don't have a very healthy relationship. Both characters are addicted to drama, scheming, and playing games, and all of these habits create a toxic relationship environment.
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Does Damon care about Elena?

Damon's feelings for Elena become clear as day during the second season, and he admits that he has fallen in love with his brother's girlfriend. Elena doesn't return the sentiment, and Damon snaps Jeremy's neck after she rejects him, bringing their friendship to an abrupt end.
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Reasons Why Delena Sucks



Who did Elena truly love?

Stefan confessed to Lexi that Elena was the love of his life and possibly "the one" but she confessed her love for Damon and it was real, choosing him.
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Does Damon love Bonnie?

Damon has also shown that he deeply and strongly cares for Bonnie and that he has a very deep and strong connection with her. He is shown to be very affectionate, gentle, loving and tender towards her and he is very overly protective of her.
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Is Damon Salvatore a narcissist?

He is a master manipulator, not just by the use of compulsion but simple in the way he uses his words to get what he wants. Damon knows how attractive he is and he is not afraid to brag about it. He is probably one of the most narcissistic men that anyone can meet.
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When did Damon like Elena?

Damon confessed his feelings to Elena for the first time during season 2's "Rose" after seeking her out to return her vervain necklace. Before remitting the jewelry, Damon admitted to being in love with his brother's girlfriend — before erasing all traces of his confession from her memory.
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Was Damon abused?

Damon Salvatore

Giuseppe was Damon's father. Not much is known about the relationship, however, based on flashbacks and what has been mentioned, Damon never had a good relationship with Giuseppe, because he was physically abusive towards his son for no apparent reason, as a child Damon was terrified of his father.
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How long were Damon and Elena together?

Shortly after Nina Dobrev and Ian Somerhalder met on The Vampire Diaries, they began dating in 2010. However, after three years together, the pair called it quits but their characters stayed together on the series. Somerhalder and Dobrev remain friends.
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Who did Damon love the most?

No matter how viewers felt about Damon and Elena's relationship, Elena is Damon's only real love interest for the majority of the series. After he moves on from Katherine in Season 1, he falls so helplessly in love with Elena that anyone else he was with was only there to pass the time.
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Who does Elena choose in the end?

It all built to the second half of the season finale, when Elena had to make a decision because she believed both brothers were hours away from dying. She had to choose which one got the goodbye. And ultimately, she chose Stefan.
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Is Damon Salvatore sexist?

Damon was trying to help Elena find the perfect person to feed on, but his entire ideology is sexist. He made the assumption that the girl was self-absorbed and easily flattered just because she was pretty and blonde.
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What Mental Illness Did Damon Salvatore have?

While Damon may not like reality from time to time, he's definitely in contact with it, so he's not psychotic. Psychopathy is currently (and some say inadequately) diagnosed by therapists using the term Antisocial Personality Disorder (APD).
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What personality type is Elena Gilbert?

Elena Gilbert is an INFP. She feels emotions deeply and is highly empathetic, continually sacrificing herself for those that she loves. Elena has idealistic views and enjoys reflecting on her emotions and experiences in her diary.
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Did Bonnie and Damon kiss?

After Elena won an argument with Damon, Damon told Bonnie that they kissed, leaving Bonnie shocked and giving Elena a quizzical look.
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Why did Damon choose Bonnie over Elena?

10 Damon Chooses Bonnie Over Elena

When he's forced to decide whether to save Bonnie's life or let Elena fall into a Sleeping Beauty-type slumber, he picks Bonnie. In the past, Damon would have thrown Bonnie to the wolves, but he had grown to love and care for her in a way that neither of them thought was possible.
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Who does Damon love more Bonnie or Elena?

Earlier this week, Ian explained that Damon loves Bonnie, but felt obligated to be true to Elena. Yet despite his good intentions, Damon can be easily swayed — after all, he once spent a century and a half promising to stay true to Katherine, but fell head over heels for Elena from the moment he laid eyes on her.
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Is Stefan or Damon better for Elena?

Elena later credits Stefan for helping her through her depressive period. Stefan ultimately did more good for Elena than Damon did by encouraging her happiness instead of causing her misery.
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Who is better Stefan or Damon?

Despite Stefan being positioned as being the "good" one, a scene in The Vampire Diaries season 5 proved that Damon was secretly always the better brother. The Salvatore brothers have a great relationship arc over the course of The Vampire Diaries' eight seasons.
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How did Elena fell in love with Damon?

Because Damon was Elena's sire, as a vampire she was compelled to do what he wanted and feel what he wanted. Stefan assumed Damon's sire hold over Elena was what prompted Elena to choose Damon, but in reality, she fell for Stefan's brother long before becoming a vampire.
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What is more popular Delena or Stelena?

Originally Answered: In 'TVD', what do people ship more, 'Delena' or 'Stelena'? People ship “Delena” way ahead of “Stelena”. There's a lot more chemistry in Delena's story.
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