Is a wedding garter necessary?

You may be a bride wondering 'do I need to wear a wedding garter?' , but it really is not something that you absolutely have to wear on your wedding day. It is, like every other wedding accessory, a choice that is completely up to you as the bride and your style.
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What is the point of a garter for wedding?

The function of a garter is to hold up stockings on the bride's legs. Therefore, there is no correct leg to wear it on. You may choose to wear your garter on either your left or your right leg based on your personal preference. Many brides choose to wear two garters: one to toss, and one to keep.
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Do brides wear garters anymore?

Yes, brides are still wearing wedding garters. I'm busy as a bee here in my studio hand making and designing stylish wedding garters in designs that brides are loving and cherishing. So, we know at least some brides are going for the garter tradition!
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What does a garter symbolize?

Traditionally, the wedding garter most often symbolizes love and luck. In the Middle Ages it was more tied up with notions of virginity and the consummation of marriage; these days it's more of a fun, lighthearted wedding way to show off the couple's chemistry and interact with their guests.
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Who gets the bride a garter?

The bride can pick out a wedding garter as a treat for herself or her spouse-to-be to a modern heirloom and special keepsake from their wedding. The bridesmaids can get together and design a garter for their friend.
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Why do groom removes garter?

"These days, removing the garter is basically the male equivalent to the bride's bouquet toss. The bride sits on a chair so her new husband can take her garter belt off her leg and toss it to a crowd of bachelors. Supposedly, whoever is lucky enough to catch it will be next to get married. "
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Why do grooms go under the bride's dress?

Wedding season is almost here, and if you'll be a guest at multiple summer weddings, you might see one or two instances of the wedding garter toss. In this long-standing tradition, the groom reaches under the bride's dress to remove the garter and throws it to the male wedding guests.
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What can I use instead of a garter toss?

Passing on the Love: Bridal Bouquet and Garter Toss Alternatives
  • Couples Dance. Instead of giving your bouquet to the single ladies, consider doing the opposite; give your bouquet to the couple that has been married the longest. ...
  • Gift Card Toss. ...
  • Something Borrowed. ...
  • Toss the Boutonniere. ...
  • Thank the Mothers. ...
  • Final Thoughts.
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Does the groom have to take the garter off?

The wedding garter is a piece of bridal lingerie worn under the wedding dress. During the reception, the groom will remove the garter from underneath the bride's gown (with his hands or teeth) and toss it into the crowd.
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How can I make my wedding less sexist?

7 Feminist Alternatives to Patriarchal Wedding Traditions
  1. Wearing a White Dress. ...
  2. Asking the Father's Permission. ...
  3. The Bride's Parents Pay. ...
  4. Making the Bridesmaids Pay for Hair and Makeup. ...
  5. The First Look. ...
  6. The Bouquet and Garter Toss. ...
  7. Taking Your Husband's Name—and Giving It to the Kids.
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What do you do with the garter after the wedding?

Many brides want to keep their wedding garter after their wedding. It is a small little wedding keepsake. The nice thing to do if you catch the garter is ask the bride if she wants it back. If the bride is busy, give the garter to one of her bridesmaids or the maid of honor to pass it on.
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Why do bride and groom stay apart the night before?

Superstitious beliefs have kept many a couple separated until the ceremony, protecting their matrimonial fate from being doomed from the start. The tradition of spending the wedding eve apart is when to-be-weds refrain from seeing one another the night before their wedding, often until the ceremony.
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Why do brides wear 2 garters?

Many brides who wear two garters don't want to loose their main garter and would rather not think about having to get it back after the toss, so they opt to wear a second garter. (As someone once told me at a wedding show: "One to show, one to go!")
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Why cant the mother of the groom see the wedding?

Mother of the bride and groom don't attend the wedding: In a traditional Bengali wedding, the mother of the bride and groom don't attend their son's or daughter's wedding as they believe that the mother would have a harmful or evil effect on the married life of the child.
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What does removing the garter symbolize?

Way back when, married couples were expected to consummate their union immediately, and some wedding guests actually tried to watch to make sure the deed was done. Removing a garter and presenting it as "proof" was a ploy to get some privacy and appease hopeful onlookers.
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Who gives the bride something blue?

Who Gives the Bride the Four Objects? A bride's something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue are often given to her by her friends and relatives.
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What are you supposed to wear under wedding dress?

We recommend wearing seamless underwear on your wedding day. They are usually more forgiving and don't hug your hips as much as ones with elastic waists and side seams. If your wedding gown is very fitted, you may want to wear a seamless thong to be extra sure that no one will catch a glimpse of your panty line.
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Do couples sleep together before wedding?

The big decision lots of couples are asking themselves is whether to spend it together or stick to tradition and sleep apart. It really is entirely up to you. There isn't a rule that says you have to but here's what's most important: that you relax. You'll want to rest up so you're totally prepared for your wedding.
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What is the night before the wedding called?

The rehearsal dinner usually takes place the night before the wedding. However, some couples decide to have the rehearsal dinner two nights before the wedding to give family and friends a chance to recuperate before the big day. The rehearsal dinner is a chance for families to spend time together in a relaxed setting.
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What happens on wedding night?

The wedding night, also most popularly known as 'suhaag raat', is when newly-weds are expected to consummate their marriage and for many couples, who had never had a physical relationship before, this night might be the first time they would be having sex with the partner.
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What is an anti wedding?

: opposed to marriage an anti-marriage attitude.
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Is the bouquet toss necessary?

There's no strict rule for when the bouquet toss should occur, but it usually happens during the reception once the toasts, dinner, and dances have come to a close. Oftentimes, the bride will choose to toss the bouquet after the cake has been cut.
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What can brides carry instead of flowers?

  • Mason Jar. When it comes to wedding décor, mason jars are perfect for just about everything: favors, signature drinks, centerpieces, and even an alternative to the traditional bouquet. ...
  • Lantern. ...
  • Kissing Ball. ...
  • Heart Balloons. ...
  • Hatbox. ...
  • Grape Bunches. ...
  • Fur Muff. ...
  • Feather Bouquet.
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Who holds the bride's bouquet during the ceremony?

The maid of honor.

Hand it to her at the start of the ceremony and let her keep it until after your first kiss. That way you can walk back up the aisle as a married woman with flowers in hand.
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Do people still do the garter thing?

The answer, as with most wedding-related traditions, is that it's a matter of personal preference. I haven't done the math on this, but anecdotally, I would say that about half my clients opt to do both a bouquet and a garter toss.
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