How do I tell my 7 year old about a miscarriage?

Reassure them that you are OK and that having a miscarriage or stillbirth does not mean there is something wrong with you. Explain the reasons why miscarriage and stillbirth happen and make sure that they understand nothing could have been done differently to prevent the loss.
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How do you tell your child you've had a miscarriage?

Explaining pregnancy loss
  1. Don't dodge her questions. ...
  2. Give brief, simple answers. ...
  3. Discuss the loss of the baby. ...
  4. Show your own emotions. ...
  5. Be honest and clear. ...
  6. Take care with religious explanations. ...
  7. Be prepared for a variety of reactions. ...
  8. Expect the subject to come up again and again.
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Should you tell your kids if you have a miscarriage?

If you told them about your pregnancy, you should tell them about your miscarriage. We have heard and read plenty of stories about parents who assume that children who are in the 2-4 age range are too young to fully understand and won't fully remember the pregnancy, so there is no need to tell them.
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Am I still a mother if I had a miscarriage?

Even though you lost your child during pregnancy or soon after, you are still a parent. Take care of yourself.
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What happens to the child during a miscarriage?

Burial or cremations. Although there is no legal requirement to have a burial or cremation, some hospitals offer burials or cremations for miscarried babies. Sometimes a number of babies are buried or cremated together.
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How long does a miscarriage last at 7 weeks?

A woman early in her pregnancy may have a miscarriage and only experience bleeding and cramping for a few hours. But another woman may have miscarriage bleeding for up to a week. The bleeding can be heavy with clots, but it slowly tapers off over days before stopping, usually within two weeks.
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Can I bury my miscarried baby at home?

Once you have the baby's body, call a local funeral home. (Some hospitals may help make this connection for you.) Many funeral homes offer free burial urns or caskets for miscarried babies. As part of this process, you may also need to contact whatever local group is in charge of a cemetary in your area.
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Are you more fertile after a miscarriage?

How does miscarriage affect fertility? Fertility may be actually be improved following a miscarriage. There is some scientific evidence that you may even be a little more fertile for a couple of months after a miscarriage. After that time, it returns to normal.
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Why do we not talk about miscarriage?

As with other health issues such as mental health, around which there is tremendous taboo still, many women report that no matter their culture, education or upbringing, their friends and family do not want to talk about their loss. This seems to connect with the silence that shrouds talking about grief in general.
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Should you say Happy mother's Day to someone who miscarried?

“The words are tricky: happy Mother's Day. A woman who has experienced a loss is probably not going to feel happy on Mother's Day," Kripke says. Instead, "We want to say, 'Hey, I recognize it's Mother's Day, and I'm thinking about you. '"
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How do you break the news from a miscarriage?

Talking about miscarriage: How to break your news of pregnancy...
  1. Put yourself first. ...
  2. Keep it simple. ...
  3. Talk as much or as little as you need to. ...
  4. Be ready for comments and advice. ...
  5. You don't have to do it face to face. ...
  6. Let people know what you need. ...
  7. It will take time. ...
  8. Counselling can help.
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What is a sunshine baby?

"Angel Baby," "Sunshine Baby," and "Rainbow Baby" are terms that refer to babies born just before or after another baby is lost due to a variety of reasons. They help immediate family members move through the grieving process and find meaning in the loss.
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How do you explain a miscarriage?

A miscarriage (sometimes called pregnancy loss) is when a fetus dies before 20 weeks of pregnancy. If your partner doesn't know how long she's been pregnant, the doctors will say she's had a miscarriage if the fetus weighs less than 400 gm. Miscarriage is common, but it's hard to say exactly how often it happens.
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What do you say when your daughter has a miscarriage?

What to Say to Your Daughter After a Miscarriage
  1. “I'm always here for you.” ...
  2. “Take time for yourself.” ...
  3. “It wasn't your fault.” ...
  4. “It wasn't meant to be” ...
  5. “You can always get pregnant again.” ...
  6. “You'll get over it soon” ...
  7. Make her life easier. ...
  8. Help her preserve the memory.
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How do you tell a child a baby has died?

A simple and honest explanation is often enough. It's probably best to start by saying that the baby has died, even if the child is too young to fully understand what that means. You could also tell the child the baby's sex and name if you have chosen one.
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How do I help my daughter through a miscarriage?

Dos
  1. Acknowledge their loss. While you may worry you will say the wrong thing and upset them further, saying nothing at all is worse. ...
  2. Listen and let them grieve. ...
  3. Encourage them to talk to other women who've had a miscarriage. ...
  4. Offer practical support. ...
  5. End the silence around miscarriage.
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Where do miscarried babies go?

When a baby dies before 24 weeks of pregnancy, there is no legal requirement to have a burial or cremation. Even so, most hospitals have sensitive disposal policies and your baby may be cremated or buried, perhaps along with the remains of other miscarried babies.
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How does a miscarriage affect you socially?

Previous research has shown that women commonly feel there is a lack of social and emotional support from family and friends following a miscarriage, including a lack of acknowledgement of their loss [12, 13].
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Can stress cause a miscarriage?

Can too much stress cause early miscarriage? Answer From Yvonne Butler Tobah, M.D. While excessive stress isn't good for your overall health, there's no evidence that stress results in miscarriage. About 10% to 20% of known pregnancies end in miscarriage.
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Why do you have to wait 3 months after miscarriage?

In the United States, the most common recommendation was to wait three months for the uterus to heal and cycles to get back to normal. The World Health Organization has recommended six months, again to let the body heal.
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What week is the highest risk of miscarriage?

Weeks 0 to 6

These early weeks mark the highest risk of miscarriage. A woman can have a miscarriage in the first week or two without realizing she's pregnant. It may even seem like a late period. Age plays a role in a woman's risk factor.
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What is considered a rainbow baby?

A rainbow baby is a term for a baby that's born after the parents have a pregnancy loss. The name draws on the symbol of the rainbow, representing beauty after a dark time. Nearly one in four pregnancies ends in loss. That could be a miscarriage, stillbirth, ectopic pregnancy, or blighted ovum.
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How long does it take to pass a miscarriage?

In many cases, a miscarriage will take around two weeks to pass naturally. Your doctor may prescribe the medication misoprostol (Cytotec) to help a miscarriage pass more quickly. Bleeding may start within two days of beginning the medication. For others, it may take up to two weeks.
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How long do you need to rest after a miscarriage?

How long should women rest after a miscarriage? Thankfully, the answer is that they don't really need to very much. Within two to three days after miscarrying, they are pretty much back to their normal physical function. There might still be a little bit of bleeding, and some period cramps, but nothing worse than this.
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What do hospitals do with miscarried babies?

Some hospitals offer services such as: saving the pregnancy tissue from a D&C where possible (provided you have explicitly requested this) arranging to have pregnancy tissue cremated at your request. giving you back the pregnancy tissue for your own private burial or cremation.
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