How difficult is labor?

While the experience is different for everyone, labor usually feels like extremely strong menstrual cramps that take your breath away and make you unable to talk. As labor continues and the pain worsens, the pregnant person tunes out stimuli and adopts a tunnel vision, focusing on the labor and getting the baby out.
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What is the hardest part about labor?

Stage 2 of labour: Transition

For many women, this is the toughest part of childbirth. Contractions are one on top of the other as your cervix dilates to 10 centimetres. You may feel you can no longer cope, or even start vomiting or trembling (especially in your legs).
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Is labor the most painful thing?

While slightly more than half said having contractions was the most painful aspect of delivery, about one in five noted pushing or post-delivery was most painful. Moms 18 to 39 were more likely to say post-delivery pain was the most painful aspect than those 40 and older.
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What hurts more labor or delivery?

By Jeanne Faulkner, R.N. For most women, labor is more painful than pushing because it lasts longer, gets gradually (or rapidly) more intense as it progresses and involves a large number of muscles, ligaments, organs, nerves and skin surface.
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Is labor really hard?

Pounding. Some women described labor as more of a pounding or punching feeling. "Having contractions felt like being hit with something really hard." "Each contraction felt like getting punched in the stomach – the type of punch that knocks all the air out of you."
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Stages of labor - physiology



Is giving birth scary?

It is rare, but some women are so afraid of giving birth that they don't want to go through with it, even if they really want to have the baby. This is called tokophobia and it can happen in any pregnancy. A severe fear of childbirth may also affect their decision on how to give birth to their baby.
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How can I have a painless birth?

Some natural pain management methods include:
  1. Breathing techniques, such as those taught in Lamaze.
  2. Massage.
  3. Essential oils or aromatherapy.
  4. Meditation.
  5. Hypnosis.
  6. Music therapy.
  7. Taking a warm bath or shower.
  8. Walking around.
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How many pushes does it take to deliver a baby?

Discourage more than three to four pushing efforts with each contraction and more than 6 to 8 seconds of each pushing effort (avoid counting to 10 with each pushing effort). Take steps to maintain a reassuring fetal heart rate (FHR) pattern while pushing.
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How does pushing a baby out feel?

An overwhelming urge to push (though not every woman feels it, especially if she's had an epidural) Tremendous rectal pressure (ditto) A burst of renewed energy (a second wind) or fatigue. Very visible contractions, with your uterus rising noticeably with each.
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How do I overcome my fear of giving birth?

10 Ways to Help Overcome Your Birth Fears
  1. Track the source of your anxiety. Certain experiences can trigger an intense fear of labor. ...
  2. Don't wait until labor day. ...
  3. Consider therapy. ...
  4. Learn relaxation skills. ...
  5. Share your fears. ...
  6. Put your fears in writing. ...
  7. Have a midwife or doula. ...
  8. Shut out negative stories.
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How many bones break during delivery?

There were 35 cases of bone injuries giving an incidence of 1 per 1,000 live births. Clavicle was the commonest bone fractured (45.7%) followed by humerus (20%), femur (14.3%) and depressed skull fracture (11.4%) in the order of frequency.
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What does it feel like to give birth?

While the experience is different for everyone, labor usually feels like extremely strong menstrual cramps that take your breath away and make you unable to talk. As labor continues and the pain worsens, the pregnant person tunes out stimuli and adopts a tunnel vision, focusing on the labor and getting the baby out.
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Do babies feel pain during birth?

The results confirm that yes, babies do indeed feel pain, and that they process it similarly to adults. Until as recently as the 1980s, researchers assumed newborns did not have fully developed pain receptors, and believed that any responses babies had to pokes or pricks were merely muscular reactions.
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How many hours does it take to give birth?

Active labor usually lasts about 4 to 8 hours. It starts when your contractions are regular and your cervix has dilated to 6 centimeters.
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What stage of birth is the quickest and easiest?

Early labour is the first, and usually the easiest and longest phase. Your cervix begins to dilate and thin in this phase.
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Why is it so painful to give birth?

Pain during labor is caused by contractions of the muscles of the uterus and by pressure on the cervix. This pain can be felt as strong cramping in the abdomen, groin, and back, as well as an achy feeling. Some women experience pain in their sides or thighs as well.
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How long do first time moms push?

For first-time mothers the average length of pushing is one-to-two hours. In some instances, pushing can last longer than two hours if mother and baby are tolerating it. Normally, the baby is born with his face looking toward mother's back (referred to as an anterior position).
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Is pushing a baby like pooping?

Truth: Pushing a baby out kind of feels like having a bowel movement since the muscles you use for both are exactly the same. And, of course, as you bear down, anything in the general vicinity will get eased out along the way — hence the pooping during labor.
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How does your VAG feel after birth?

In the weeks to months after a vaginal delivery, your vagina may be noticeably stretched out, and sex after birth may feel tender and even painful for a little while (typically, you'll be advised by your provider to wait four to six weeks post-delivery before you resume sex).
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Does it smell when you have a baby?

As anyone who has experienced birth can tell you, it can get messy. Newborns arrive after spending months floating in amniotic fluid, covered in the waxy white substance known as vernix caseosa. Some theorize that these fluids and substances play a part in that new baby smell.
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What is the longest labour ever recorded?

After 75 days – and what is believed to be the longest labour ever recorded – Mrs Krzysztonek gave birth to a healthy girl, Iga, and boy, Ignacy, at a neo-natal clinic in the Polish town of Wroclaw.
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How do you push a baby out without tearing?

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  1. Prepare to push. During the second stage of labor, the pushing stage, aim for more controlled and less expulsive pushing. ...
  2. Keep your perineum warm. Placing a warm cloth on the perineum during the second stage of labor might help.
  3. Perineal massage. ...
  4. Deliver in an upright, nonflat position.
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Can you give birth without tearing?

Only 2% of women endure the most severe form of perineal tearing during birth, involving the vagina, perineum and sometimes the anus. Around 27% of women experience no tearing at all, while 23% have a very minor vaginal tear or graze that often does not require stitches and heals on its own.
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What makes labor easy?

20 ways to have an easy labour
  • Getting your baby ready. ...
  • Stay focused on coping. ...
  • Stay fit and strong. ...
  • Massage your perineum. ...
  • Keep an eye on the monitoring. ...
  • Stay active. ...
  • A midwife led home birth is possible and safe. ...
  • Boost and maintain your energy levels.
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Can you be too small to give birth naturally?

Unfortunately, it is possible to be too small to give birth naturally. This is called cephalopelvic disproportion or CPD for short. We use this term when we deem that your pelvis is too small to deliver your baby vaginally. Often, this is the case when the baby has a high estimated fetal weight and the mom is petite.
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