Does the military pay for your first move?

Even though the military reimburses some of your moving costs, there are tons of additional payments like closing out your bills at one location, paying security deposits at the new location, buying a different vehicle, setting up utilities, etc. Try to predict your expenses and plan for them.
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How much does the military pay for a move?

In essence, DoD is reimbursing you for 103 percent of what the government would pay a commercial mover to move your household goods.
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Will the military pay to move me on base?

The Defense Department provides travel and relocation allowances to help you with moving expenses. Per Diem reimburses you for meals, incidentals and lodging while you are traveling to your new duty station.
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Does military pay for spouse to move?

The good news is that the military will pay for your spouse to move as long as you live in the same home together. Depending on the amount of leave you have, your spouse may be the one making most of the moving arrangements.
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Does the military pay for weddings?

Free or cheap venues

Holding your wedding in a military chapel is usually free, and the chaplin is performing his military duties so you do not normally have to pay him a fee, either. Be sure to ask, however, about their wedding requirements.
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Moving in the Military? This is How It Works



Is it better to get married before or after basic training?

Again, it is not encouraged to get married solely because he is joining. There will be plenty of opportunities at a later date when you know the time is right. However, if you are already planning a wedding, it may be to your advantage to get married before he leaves for basic training.
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Do soldiers have to pay to come home?

Soldiers and their loved ones are not charged money so that the Soldier can go on leave. Soldiers are not charged money for secure communications or leave.
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Can my girlfriend live on base with me?

For starters, an unmarried couple cannot live on a base outside of certain extenuating circumstances that would have the non-service member defined as a caregiver for the service member's children. As a result, unmarried military couples typically live off-base.
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Can your wife deploy with you?

Unfortunately, the whole idea of visiting your spouse during deployment is highly unlikely. There's a reason the military isn't sending you with them! If you were to be truly flexible enough to jump on a plane whenever your spouse says “Go,” you would still have a horribly priced plane ticket.
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How much will the army pay me to move myself?

Under this program, military members can receive reimbursement up to 100% of the Government Constructive Cost (GCC), if they hire their own carrier, or an incentive payment of 95% of the GCC if they move the property on their own.
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Does the military pay to move your car?

The military may ship your car for free if you're an a) active member of the military and b) have received permanent change of station (PCS) orders. The government only pays for one privately owned vehicle (POV) to be shipped, according to the Department of Defense.
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Do you get money when you PCS?

Military members receive a "per diem" allowance, which is designed to partially reimburse for lodging and meal expenses when traveling from one duty station to another. When traveling by Privately Owned Conveyance (POC), military members are paid a flat rate of $142.00 per day for each day of authorized travel used.
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What happens if you cheat on your spouse in the military?

The maximum punishment for adultery, defined in the Uniform Code of Military Justice as Extramarital Sexual Conduct is a dishonorable discharge, forfeiture of all pay and allowances, and confinement for up to a year.
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Do military families struggle financially?

As many as 160,000 active-duty military members are having trouble feeding their families. That estimate by Feeding America, which coordinates the work of more than 200 food banks around the country, underscores how long-term food insecurity has extended into every aspect of American life, including the military.
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What a military spouse should not say?

8 Things You Shouldn't Say to a Military Spouse or Partner.
  • “You chose this life.” ...
  • “My spouse travels for work, so I totally know what you're going through.” ...
  • “I don't know how you do it! ...
  • “It will go fast. ...
  • “Wait, what? ...
  • “Have they ever killed anyone?” ...
  • “Don't you miss them? ...
  • “I'm so sorry.”
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Can a drill sergeant hit you?

Except this is the new Army, an army that no longer allows drill sergeants to be cussing, ranting, abusive beasts. They cannot slap, hit, kick, punch or call privates names anymore.
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How long do military relationships last?

Most deployments last at least six months. Sure, you say, this is only half of a year. But think of the things that can occur in that half-year. You may receive a promotion and/ or an opportunity to relocate for work.
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How do you know if a soldier is real?

Verification of Military Service

Please use the Defense Manpower Data Center's (DMDC) Military Verification service to verify if someone is in the military. The website will tell you if the person is currently serving in the military. The site is available 24-hours a day.
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Is food free in the military?

Basic Allowance for Subsistence (BAS) pays for the cost of a military member's meals when dining at their permanent duty station. Although BAS is meant to offset the cost of a member's meals, it doesn't cover the costs of meals for family members.
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Does a soldier ask for money?

Online Romance Scam Information

The "Soldier" then begins asking for money for various FALSE, service-related needs such as transportation costs, communication fees, marriage, processing and medical fees. Victims of these online scams have lost hundreds of thousands of dollars, with a very low possibility of recovery.
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What do soldiers pay for?

All active duty military members receive a monthly allowance for food, called Basic Allowance for Subsistence. Commissioned and warrant officers receive $254.39 per month, while enlisted members receive a monthly food allowance of $369.39.
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How much do military wives get paid?

There is no military spouse pay or stipend, but the military offers a number of benefits to help service members and their families. Your first stop after the wedding should be the nearest military ID card issuing facility to enroll in DEERS, the Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System.
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How much extra money do you get for being married in the military?

According to LAWeekly.com, an unmarried private in the Army earns a monthly salary of about $1,350. However, if he gets married, his monthly salary increases to about $1,800.
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How do military girlfriends do?

How to Be a Good Military Girlfriend
  • Be flexible with your time. Serving your country is not a 9-5 job. ...
  • Don't be too demanding about their future plans. ...
  • Don't rush to the altar. ...
  • Gain a little knowledge. ...
  • Cultivate independence and self-determination. ...
  • Meet the pros.
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Is kissing considered adultery in the military?

No. Adultery requires a sex act with someone not your spouse, or with the spouse of another. A kiss does not qualify.
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