Does the military pay for wedding?

Free Chapels
One of the perks of being in the military is that you can typically tie the knot at the base chapel for free. This includes a chaplain to perform the wedding ceremony and a variety of choices, including almost any religious denomination, non-religious, military, civilian and casual.
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Can you get married for free in the military?

Base chaplains offer a complete variety of marriage choices, including religious (almost any denomination), non-religious, casual, civilian-formal, and military-formal. If the wedding is conducted by a military chaplain, there is never a fee.
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How much more does military pay if married?

According to LAWeekly.com, an unmarried private in the Army earns a monthly salary of about $1,350. However, if he gets married, his monthly salary increases to about $1,800.
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What benefits do you get when you marry someone in the military?

Most also receive a variety of allowances, special pays and bonuses depending on things like deployment, paygrade and military job. For most married service members, those allowances include Basic Allowance for Subsistence (BAS) and Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH). Guard and Reserve pay work a little differently.
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How much do military wives get a month?

To answer your question, there is no stipend, no monetary benefits for military spouses. Service members can choose to give a monthly allotment to a spouse or whoever, but the money is deducted from their own pay. It does not come from the Department of the Army or Department of Defense.
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Can I live with my military boyfriend?

If one of those people falls ill or injured, he can come home for them. If a girlfriend or boyfriend falls ill or injured, the soldier cannot come home for them. Others marry so they can live with their partner — without marriage, the soldier must live in the barracks without their partner.
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How do military wives make money?

You can do freelance work or consulting for companies all over the globe. As independent workers, military spouses can earn extra income, set their own hours, and work from anywhere in a variety of virtual positions. If you're not sure about self-employment, you may still be able to secure a position as an employee.
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Can my wife come with me on deployment?

Unfortunately, the whole idea of visiting your spouse during deployment is highly unlikely. There's a reason the military isn't sending you with them! If you were to be truly flexible enough to jump on a plane whenever your spouse says “Go,” you would still have a horribly priced plane ticket.
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Why do military marriages fail?

The marriages of U.S. Armed Forces service members often fail because of infidelity on the part of one or both spouses. There are always stories of lonely military wives hanging out at clubs and cheating on husbands who are deployed.
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What happens if a military spouse cheats?

What sort of punishment do soldiers face for cheating on their spouses? The military penalty remains pretty harsh: up to a year in confinement plus a dishonorable discharge, which entails the forfeiture of all retirement pay.
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Why do military couples marry so fast?

"Marriage is deliberately made to be compatible with military life because this is an important way to retain personnel. The conditions of military employment also lead naturally to marriage. There's stable employment, comprehensive family benefits, and economic mobility in an entry-level job.
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Does military pay go up when you have a baby?

The military does not pay people more money because they have dependents. There is no increase in pay for getting married, or for having children. Base pay is base pay, period.
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Can a soldier get married while deployed?

Troops cannot take their spouses on their deployments. Some duty stations, particularly those overseas, may be categorized as especially dangerous and not allow family members, or may block family members because there is not enough family housing. In those cases, troops are sent on "unaccompanied" move orders.
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Why do soldiers get married in uniform?

Some people love their uniforms and are proud to wear it. Others, however, find them uncomfortable and want to wear something else on their wedding day. The service member can choose to wear a civilian tuxedo or wedding dress. It is not an official military event, so a uniform is optional.
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Will the army move my wife after we get married?

The good news is that the military will pay for your spouse to move as long as you live in the same home together. Depending on the amount of leave you have, your spouse may be the one making most of the moving arrangements.
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Is a military relationship worth it?

The pros of being in a military relationship, dating-wise, are simply that it makes the relationship stronger and makes you cherish each other a lot more. The months spent apart and the little time you get to talk makes you realize what you have and appreciate each other more than you ever thought was possible.
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How long do military relationships last?

Most deployments last at least six months. Sure, you say, this is only half of a year. But think of the things that can occur in that half-year. You may receive a promotion and/ or an opportunity to relocate for work.
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Why is military divorce rate so high?

The difficult adjustment of reconnecting as a couple after having been used to being apart, coupled with other issues such as money, affairs, children, alcohol and physical abuse all increase the chance of divorce for military personnel.
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What does Jody mean?

Jody (plural Jodies) (US, military and prison slang) The man who seduces a soldier or inmate's wife or girlfriend during his absence.
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What a military spouse should not say?

8 Things You Shouldn't Say to a Military Spouse or Partner.
  • “You chose this life.” ...
  • “My spouse travels for work, so I totally know what you're going through.” ...
  • “I don't know how you do it! ...
  • “It will go fast. ...
  • “Wait, what? ...
  • “Have they ever killed anyone?” ...
  • “Don't you miss them? ...
  • “I'm so sorry.”
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Should I get married before deployment?

While you might be more inclined to wait for marriage, there are several benefits to getting married before deployment. Housing benefits are extremely beneficial for military families who are constantly on the move from base to base. And not only are there allowances given to spouses but children as well.
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Is it hard for military wives to get jobs?

Holding down a job while your spouse is in the military is easier than you might think. While the military often throws a monkey wrench into best-laid plans, your career doesn't have to be one of them. Military spouses have successful careers in all types of industries.
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Do military wives get insurance?

Military spouses can get up to $100,000 in Family Servicemembers' Group Life Insurance coverage, with premiums as low as 45 cents per $10,000 of coverage. The spouse's coverage cannot exceed your the service member's SGLI coverage. Children can also be insured – at no cost – for $10,000.
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What jobs do military wives have?

There are a wide range of roles that military spouses can explore in Health Care & Social Assistance; a few potential job functions include becoming a nurse, therapist, health caregiver, dental hygienist, pharmacy technician or medical assisting personnel. Educational Services.
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How can you tell if a military man is real?

Verification of Military Service

Please use the Defense Manpower Data Center's (DMDC) Military Verification service to verify if someone is in the military. The website will tell you if the person is currently serving in the military. The site is available 24-hours a day.
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