Do you lose BAH after a divorce?

Typically, the former spouse loses access to family housing 30 days after the service member moves out due to the divorce. If you are a civilian spouse who is separating from a military member, you should not expect to receive Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH).
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What happens to BAH during divorce?

When parents are divorced, the custodial parent receives BAH-With for the children. A BAH Differential (BAH-Diff) allowance is paid to a member who lives in military housing or has no spouse or children living with him/her, but pays child support greater than the BAH-Diff amount.
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What army regulation covers BAH after divorce?

Army Regulation 608-99, Family Support, Child Custody & Paternity requires soldiers to pay temporary support depending upon the family situation. All payments are based upon BAH-II, and is the housing allowance without the locality allowance, found on page 2 of the military pay chart.
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Is my wife entitled to my BAH?

If the spouse or kids are in military housing, they get no further support. The BAH-II, with-dependents rate applies if a spouse who is civilian or children are not in military housing.
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Does a military spouse keep benefits after divorce?

After divorce, the former spouse is entitled to the Continued Health Care Benefit Program (CHCBP), which is the Tricare version of “COBRA” for three years. And as long as the spouse remains unmarried and was also awarded a share of the military retirement or SBP, the former spouse may remain on CHCBP for life.
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What is a military wife entitled to in a divorce?

A spouse is entitled to one year of transitional medical benefits under the 20/20/15 rule, which requires at least twenty years of marriage, at least twenty years of military service, and at least fifteen years of overlap of the marriage and the military service.
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How much BAH is a military spouse entitled to?

If the member has just one family member, a spouse, that spouse is entitled to 1/1 of the BAH, i.e. all of it. If the member has two children and a spouse, each member is entitled to 1/3 of the BAH.
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What happens if a military spouse cheats?

What sort of punishment do soldiers face for cheating on their spouses? The military penalty remains pretty harsh: up to a year in confinement plus a dishonorable discharge, which entails the forfeiture of all retirement pay.
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How long do you have to be married to get half of his military retirement?

There is no set amount of time that you must be married for your spouse to potentially be able to access your military pension in a divorce. Even if you were married for less than a year, a court may award a share of your military retired pay to them.
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Can you date while legally separated in the military?

If you are in the military and you date someone other than your spouse while your divorce is pending or even after you are "legally separated," you are risking criminal charges.
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Can an ex wife get my military pension?

No, there is no Federal law that automatically entitles a former spouse to a portion of a member's military retired pay. A former spouse must have been awarded a portion of a member's military retired pay in a State court order.
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How can I get out of paying spousal support in the army?

RELIEF FROM SUPPORT PAYMENTS

If the Soldier wants to reduce the amount of support owed under a written support agreement, then the Soldier must get it changed by a court order or another written support agreement.
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How much is alimony in the military?

The general rule of spousal support is that it can't be more than 60% of the military spouse's pay. If the couple has been married for less than 10 years, generally the alimony will only be paid for the time that is equal to half the length of the marriage.
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How do I report a cheating military spouse?

There are two ways to report infidelity in the military. The first option is to call the commander or the accused and report. To do this, you can get the commander's contact information from the Family Readiness Officer. The second option is to file a petition for divorce, which is a public record document.
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What is the 10 10 rule in military divorce?

Here is a brief description of the “10/10 rule”: If the marriage lasted 10 years and the service member or former service member served at least 10 years in the military during that marriage, then the former spouse shall receive those pension benefits from the Defense Finance and Accounting Service (DFAS).
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What is the 20 20 20 rule for military divorce?

With the 20/20/20 rule, a spouse would qualify for medical benefits and commissary and exchange privileges for the remainder of their life (as long as they remain unmarried) if ALL of the following requirements are met: Married for at least 20 years.
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How much of my retirement is my ex wife entitled to?

If you're getting Social Security retirement benefits, some members of your family may also qualify to receive benefits on your record. If they qualify, your ex-spouse, spouse, or child may receive a monthly payment of up to one-half of your retirement benefit amount.
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What is a Jody?

The mythical Jody refers to a civilian who remains at home instead of joining the military service. Jody is often presumed to be medically unfit for service, a 4F in WWII parlance. Jody also lacks the desirable attributes of military men.
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Can you have an Onlyfans while in the military?

It's also frowned upon in the military and most federal careers, so if you hope to do any of those things post-Onlyfans, use your account for a different purpose. Understand that we live in a world where people can screenshot and share whatever they want.
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Can a military spouse be charged with adultery?

Under the Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ), it is a punishable criminal offense for a service member to engage in adultery. The act of adultery is defined as a situation where a service member engages in sexual relations with someone other than his or her spouse.
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How long does a military spouse have to be married to get benefits?

The military member has performed at least 20 years of service that is creditable in determining eligibility for retired pay (the member does not have to be retired from active duty). The former spouse was married to the member during at least 20 years of the member's retirement-creditable service.
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Can ex wife claim my 401k years after divorce?

Your desire to protect your funds may be self-seeking. Or it may be a matter of survival. But either way, your spouse has the legal grounds to claim all or part of your 401k benefits in a divorce settlement.
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How long can I stay on Tricare after divorce?

Because getting divorced is a TRICARE Qualifying Life Event (QLE), you and your eligible children may make changes to your TRICARE Prime or TRICARE Select health plans. You have 90 days after the divorce to do so, if you choose to do so.
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Can a military spouse sue the military?

A civilian has the right to sue the military under the FTCA for negligence. The right extends to veterans and military dependents. Therefore, a family member of a service member or a retired service member may file a wrongful death lawsuit against the military for the death of a family member.
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Do I lose my ex husband's military retirement if I remarry?

A former spouse who remarries before age 55 loses SBP eligibility; however, if the marriage ends in death, divorce, or annulment, eligibility is reinstated. A former spouse who remarries after age 55 does not lose eligibility.
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