Do you go in before the coffin?

In some cases you will be ushered in to take your seat before the family and coffin arrive, at other funerals, you might wait until they have arrived and you walk in behind them. The front rows are for the immediate family so sit nearer the back if you did not know the person very well.

Do coffins go in first?

Carrying a Coffin

Together, they guide the deceased to and from the funeral venue. It is important to remember that, when carrying a coffin or casket, the person inside is always carried feet first – the only exception is a vicar, who is carried head first to face their congregation.

What is the order of a funeral procession?

The processional is led by the officiant and is followed by the pallbearers who carry the casket. Next, the family and kin to the deceased walk down the aisle, followed by close friends as they take their seats in the first few rows. A funeral recessional marks the end of the funeral service.

Is it tradition to walk behind the coffin?

Funeral procession order

The officiant will usually lead the procession and pallbearers carrying the coffin tend to follow. Immediate family and close friends will often walk behind the coffin, followed by other guests.

Are you cremated inside the coffin?

Cremations usually take place immediately after the service, or at least on the same day. The coffin is placed into the cremator, a cubicle large enough for one standard sized coffin. It takes up to three hours to complete the cremation, after which the ashes are placed on a cooling tray.

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Why do they cover the legs in a casket?

They cover the legs in a casket because the deceased is not wearing shoes in many cases due to the difficulty of putting them on stiff feet. Also, funeral directors may recommend it to save money, for religious reasons, in the event of trauma, for easier transportation, or with tall bodies.

Which part of human body does not burn in fire?

Quite often the peripheral bones of the hands and feet will not be burned to such a high intensity as those at the centre of the body, where most fat is located.

Who goes in first at a funeral?

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At a funeral, the first few rows are usually allocated to the immediate family (chief mourners). The remaining seats are free for everyone else, and you don't need to pick a specific side.

Do you clap at a funeral?

On almost every other public occasion where someone stands up to speak, even if they are dead boring, they are acknowledged by clapping. Sometimes quiet clapping, sometimes a standing ovation and everything in between. But, in this setting at a funeral, it is often just flat..don't make a sound...

Do funeral cars take you back home?

Does the procession always leave from the home of the person who has died? Traditionally yes, but the procession can leave from the home of a close relative. The family may decide to leave from the address where people will return to after the funeral. Or, mourners may decide to meet at the place of service.

What is the protocol for seating at a funeral?

Immediate family members and close friends sit at the front of the venue during the funeral service, with other close family members in the seats or pews behind.

What is the order of family at a funeral?

The spouse is first, accompanied by children. Parents and siblings would be next, followed by extended family (grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins, etc). Where should immediate family sit at a funeral? The immediate family members sit in the front rows.

Do you follow the coffin into the church?

You will usually carry the coffin to the front of the church or crematorium. In the case of a burial you will again carry to the hearse and then to the grave, or directly to the grave if it is close by.

Why do Coffins go in feet first?

It is traditional to carry a coffin so that the body travels feet first. If carrying into a crematorium the coffin must be placed feet first onto the catafalque (the platform on which it must be placed by the end of the ceremony). Many coffins are shaped, so the feet end is the more tapered end.

How heavy is a coffin with a body in it?

Pallbearers will have to carry the casket with the body inside, so they will have to transport the body's weight and the coffin. 370 to 400 pounds is the final weight that pallbearers will carry if the casket is standard sized, 200 pounds heavy, whereas the adult body is 200 pounds (male) or 170 pounds (female).

Should you take pictures at a funeral?

As a General Rule: No Photos Inside

Unless you have been specifically asked by the family of the deceased to do so, it is not appropriate to take pictures inside a funeral service or at a grave site. People in attendance at the funeral may be in mourning, or even crying, and taking photos is an invasion of privacy.

Is it rude to not view the body at a funeral?

Many people are a bit uncomfortable with the idea of attending a viewing, but keep in mind that funeral viewing etiquette does not require you to actually look at or spend time with the body if you are not comfortable doing so.

Is it rude to not cry at a funeral?

Have you ever found yourself not crying at funerals and wondered whether it is normal? Worry not! It is perfectly fine to feel that way. Besides, a funeral service exists to allow friends and family to extend comfort to the bereaved family.

What should you not do at a funeral?

When should you not go to a funeral?

5 reasons not to go to the funeral:

Your attendance at the service would be disruptive or distracting to any member of the immediate family. Your attendance at the service would be upsetting to any member of the immediate family. The services are private and not open to the public.

Should ex wife go to funeral?

In general, if you're on good terms with your ex-spouse and ex-family, you should attend the funeral. You were a big part of your spouse's life at one time. Even if you've gone separate ways, those memories and feelings are still very real. If you were on good terms, you'll likely be welcome to any funeral events.

Does the body feel pain during cremation?

Does the body feel pain during cremation? A body is dead when cremated. Pain cannot be felt because there are no nerve impulses.

Why does the belly button not burn during cremation?

The ashes that remain are collected in vessels made of brass or clay ! Many may not know this, but the belly button of the deceased never burns to ash, it remains hard and in the same shape that it adorns the human body.

Do bodies sit up during cremation?

Does the body sit up during cremation? Yes, this can happen. Due to the heat and the muscle tissue, the body can move as the body is broken down, although this does happen inside the coffin, so it won't be visible.