Do I lose bah if I get divorced?

When the divorce is final, you'll begin receiving single BAH. You may even lose BAH if your installation requires single individuals of your rank to live in military dorms.
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Will I lose BAH after divorce?

It's important to remember that the government pays BAH to service members, not their spouses. After a divorce, the spouse who does not serve in the military will not receive BAH payments. However, if the non-serving spouse receives child support as a term of the divorce, BAH may partially fund the child support.
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What happens to BAH during divorce?

When parents are divorced, the custodial parent receives BAH-With for the children. A BAH Differential (BAH-Diff) allowance is paid to a member who lives in military housing or has no spouse or children living with him/her, but pays child support greater than the BAH-Diff amount.
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Is my wife entitled to my BAH?

If the spouse or kids are in military housing, they get no further support. The BAH-II, with-dependents rate applies if a spouse who is civilian or children are not in military housing.
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Do divorced spouses get BAH with GI Bill?

Note that such an election must be made prior to divorce - while the member may elect a spouse as beneficiary, there is no provision to elect a former spouse. However, as divorce does not disqualify a beneficiary, as long as the election is made prior to divorce, the former spouse remains eligible to use the benefits.
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Does a military spouse keep benefits after divorce?

After divorce, the former spouse is entitled to the Continued Health Care Benefit Program (CHCBP), which is the Tricare version of “COBRA” for three years. And as long as the spouse remains unmarried and was also awarded a share of the military retirement or SBP, the former spouse may remain on CHCBP for life.
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What is a military wife entitled to in a divorce?

A spouse is entitled to one year of transitional medical benefits under the 20/20/15 rule, which requires at least twenty years of marriage, at least twenty years of military service, and at least fifteen years of overlap of the marriage and the military service.
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What army regulation covers BAH after divorce?

Army Regulation 608-99, Family Support, Child Custody & Paternity requires soldiers to pay temporary support depending upon the family situation. All payments are based upon BAH-II, and is the housing allowance without the locality allowance, found on page 2 of the military pay chart.
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What happens if a military spouse cheats?

What sort of punishment do soldiers face for cheating on their spouses? The military penalty remains pretty harsh: up to a year in confinement plus a dishonorable discharge, which entails the forfeiture of all retirement pay.
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How much BAH is a military spouse entitled to?

If the member has just one family member, a spouse, that spouse is entitled to 1/1 of the BAH, i.e. all of it. If the member has two children and a spouse, each member is entitled to 1/3 of the BAH.
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What does it mean to be legally separated in the military?

The process in states that grant legal separations is typically similar to that for getting a divorce. Property and debts are distributed, child custody and support issues are decided and spousal support may be ordered. However, the spouses remain legally married.
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Can an ex wife get my military pension?

No, there is no Federal law that automatically entitles a former spouse to a portion of a member's military retired pay. A former spouse must have been awarded a portion of a member's military retired pay in a State court order.
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Can you date while legally separated in the military?

If you are in the military and you date someone other than your spouse while your divorce is pending or even after you are "legally separated," you are risking criminal charges.
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How do I report a cheating military spouse?

There are two ways to report infidelity in the military. The first option is to call the commander or the accused and report. To do this, you can get the commander's contact information from the Family Readiness Officer. The second option is to file a petition for divorce, which is a public record document.
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Do you get BAH If you have a child?

It depends on whether or not you have legal and physical custody of your children, pay child support, and/or live in single-type government quarters. If you have legal and physical custody of your children, then you are authorized BAH at the with-dependent rate if not assigned adequate family-type government quarters.
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How much is alimony in the military?

The general rule of spousal support is that it can't be more than 60% of the military spouse's pay. If the couple has been married for less than 10 years, generally the alimony will only be paid for the time that is equal to half the length of the marriage.
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What is the 20/20 rule for military?

All three criteria must be met for you to have access to the same benefits as your military spouse: Must have been married for at least 20 years. Spouse must have served in the military for at least 20 years. 20 years of the marriage must overlap 20 years of the spouse's military service.
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What is a Jody?

The mythical Jody refers to a civilian who remains at home instead of joining the military service. Jody is often presumed to be medically unfit for service, a 4F in WWII parlance. Jody also lacks the desirable attributes of military men.
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Can you have an Onlyfans while in the military?

It's also frowned upon in the military and most federal careers, so if you hope to do any of those things post-Onlyfans, use your account for a different purpose. Understand that we live in a world where people can screenshot and share whatever they want.
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How can I get out of paying spousal support in the army?

RELIEF FROM SUPPORT PAYMENTS

If the Soldier wants to reduce the amount of support owed under a written support agreement, then the Soldier must get it changed by a court order or another written support agreement.
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How long does it take to get BAH back pay?

-It depends. Some receive their first pay 3 weeks into BMT, some receive it 5 weeks into BMT. Some don't receive it at all during BMT (due to various reasons), but NOTE: Even if you don't see money coming in for TWO MONTHS, you WILL get all of it eventually. It's called “back pay.”
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How can I get BAH without dependents?

BAH With Dependents and BAH Without Dependents

If a member is serving an UNACCOMPANIED overseas tour, the member is eligible for BAH at the "with dependents" rate, based on the dependent's US residence ZIP Code, plus OHA at the "without dependents" rate, if the member is not furnished government housing overseas.
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What is the 10 10 Rule military?

Here is a brief description of the “10/10 rule”: If the marriage lasted 10 years and the service member or former service member served at least 10 years in the military during that marriage, then the former spouse shall receive those pension benefits from the Defense Finance and Accounting Service (DFAS).
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How long does a military spouse have to be married to get benefits?

20/20/20 Benefits

To qualify, the couple must have been married for at least 20 years overlapping the member's military career. For more information, see the Military Health Benefits for Divorced Spouses article in the Military Divorce Guide.
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Will I lose my ex husband's military retirement if I remarry?

A former spouse who remarries before age 55 loses SBP eligibility; however, if the marriage ends in death, divorce, or annulment, eligibility is reinstated. A former spouse who remarries after age 55 does not lose eligibility.
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