Will the army move my wife after we get married?

If you have PCS (Permanent Change of Station) orders and get married before you actually make the move, you can have your spouse added to your orders and the military will pay for the relocation of your spouse and her property (furniture and such).
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Will the military pay for my wife to move?

The good news is that the military will pay for your spouse to move as long as you live in the same home together. Depending on the amount of leave you have, your spouse may be the one making most of the moving arrangements.
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Does a military spouse have to move?

The spouse does not have to relocate to the new duty station in order to apply for non-competitive appointments. Spouses who wish to exercise military spouse preference must relocate with the service member. The position must be in the local commuting area of the sponsor's new duty station.
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What happens when you get married in the Army?

As a husband or wife of a service member, you get to be an active participant in the military family. You are also eligible for many benefits, including health care, shopping privileges on base and access to base recreation facilities and other programs.
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Do married military couples get stationed together?

Look for joint assignments – Each service branch has a program for assigning married couples to the same duty location or within 100 miles of each other. Be proactive in your search for joint assignments by looking into programs such as the Air Force Joint Spouse Program and the Married Army Couples Program.
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Can I get deployed with my wife?

Being a dual-military couple is one of the few instances where a military member has the chance to deploy with their spouse. With the Married Army Couples Program, which helps place married service members in proximal units, some couples have the chance to spend their time overseas together.
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Can I live with my wife in the army?

Military Housing for Married Couples or Those with Dependents. If you are married and living with your spouse or minor dependents, you will either live in on-base housing or be given a monetary allowance called Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH) to live off-base.
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How much does the Army pay if your married?

According to LAWeekly.com, an unmarried private in the Army earns a monthly salary of about $1,350. However, if he gets married, his monthly salary increases to about $1,800.
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What are the benefits of marrying someone in the Army?

Many military benefits and resources are available to spouses.
  • Access to commissaries and exchanges.
  • Free gyms, libraries and other recreation opportunities.
  • Free tax services.
  • Free, confidential non-medical counseling services.
  • Help with education and career goals.
  • Military discounts.
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How much do military wives get paid?

To answer your question, there is no stipend, no monetary benefits for military spouses. Service members can choose to give a monthly allotment to a spouse or whoever, but the money is deducted from their own pay. It does not come from the Department of the Army or Department of Defense.
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When can your spouse move with you in the Army?

After a certain time period, the soldier will be allowed to live with his family if he chooses. This generally occurs after making it through the first phase of AIT. If his AIT is less than 20 weeks long, the dependents will generally not be added to his orders.
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How much time does the army give you to move?

You have the right to a permissive 10-day TDY (Temporary Duty) as part of your PCS move. This gives you the ability to take days that do not count against your leave to find new housing, etc. at your new duty station.
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How many days does the military give you to move?

A few months before your the move to your next duty station, military members are allowed a permissive TDY (Temporary Duty) for up to 10 days in conjunction with a Permanent Change of Station (PCS) move between and within the 50 states & District of Columbia.
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Is it better to get married before or after basic training?

Again, it is not encouraged to get married solely because he is joining. There will be plenty of opportunities at a later date when you know the time is right. However, if you are already planning a wedding, it may be to your advantage to get married before he leaves for basic training.
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Does my wife get a military ID?

As the legal spouse of a service member (active, Guard/Reserve or retired), you are eligible to receive an ID card as part of your enrollment into the Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System (DEERS).
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How much does a military move cost?

The services vary significantly in their costs. For example, the Air Force has the highest average total per-move cost at $8,548, nearly twice the Marine Corps' average of $4,679.
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Does military pay for wedding?

Free Chapels

One of the perks of being in the military is that you can typically tie the knot at the base chapel for free. This includes a chaplain to perform the wedding ceremony and a variety of choices, including almost any religious denomination, non-religious, military, civilian and casual.
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Why do military guys marry fast?

Jon said he thinks young military members get married so quickly because of young love and the ability to grow up faster. "The military is a way for you to start earning and providing for a spouse faster than earning a degree through college," said Jon. "I would attribute it to impatience."
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Can a girlfriend live on army base?

For starters, an unmarried couple cannot live on a base outside of certain extenuating circumstances that would have the non-service member defined as a caregiver for the service member's children. As a result, unmarried military couples typically live off-base.
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How does marriage work in the military?

There are no laws governing military marriage. Military members can marry whomever they want, including same-sex partners.
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How often do you get to see your family in the Army?

An inevitable part of military life is moving often. Most military families move every 2 to 3 years, and some even more frequently.
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Should you get married before deployment?

While you might be more inclined to wait for marriage, there are several benefits to getting married before deployment. Housing benefits are extremely beneficial for military families who are constantly on the move from base to base. And not only are there allowances given to spouses but children as well.
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How long do military relationships last?

Most deployments last at least six months. Sure, you say, this is only half of a year. But think of the things that can occur in that half-year. You may receive a promotion and/ or an opportunity to relocate for work.
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What a military spouse should not say?

8 Things You Shouldn't Say to a Military Spouse or Partner.
  • “You chose this life.” ...
  • “My spouse travels for work, so I totally know what you're going through.” ...
  • “I don't know how you do it! ...
  • “It will go fast. ...
  • “Wait, what? ...
  • “Have they ever killed anyone?” ...
  • “Don't you miss them? ...
  • “I'm so sorry.”
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Does the military move you for free?

The Defense Department provides travel and relocation allowances to help you with moving expenses. Per Diem reimburses you for meals, incidentals and lodging while you are traveling to your new duty station.
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