What should I do if my son wants to be a girl?

Doctors recommend you find a therapist who specializes in gender issues as early as possible if you sense gender is a source of conflict for your child. "A lot of parents don't seek treatment because they're hoping this is a phase, or they don't want to do treatment that will cause harm for their child.
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What do you do when your child asks their gender?

Trust your child, and ask them what they need to feel supported. If you're unsure how to help, simply ask your child what they need from you to feel supported and safe. Maybe they want help finding a therapist that affirms their gender, or they need some encouraging words, or some help navigating online resources.
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Is it normal for a 4 year old boy to pretend to be a girl?

Children dressing up as the opposite gender is very common (almost as common, in fact, as parents who are worried about this behavior.) But rest assured, it is perfectly normal. Dressing up and playing pretend is the activity of choice for children of this age.
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What age should you talk to your child about gender identity?

Most kids begin to identify strongly with a gender around age 3. That includes transgender and gender nonconforming people, who also have a sense of their gender identity at this stage. Think through your values when it comes to gender while your kid is still small.
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How can I teach my child gender?

How To Teach Children About Gender
  1. Learn the difference between gender identity and gender expression. ...
  2. Explore your own feelings. ...
  3. Don't shame children. ...
  4. Don't gender genitalia. ...
  5. Really listen to children. ...
  6. Take advantage of teaching tools. ...
  7. Integrate teaching moments into everyday life.
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WHY DO I HAVE A SON THAT WANTS TO BE A GIRL?



How many sexes are there?

Based on the sole criterion of production of reproductive cells, there are two and only two sexes: the female sex, capable of producing large gametes (ovules), and the male sex, which produces small gametes (spermatozoa).
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How do you know if your transgendered?

However, certain things may indicate a Trans identity:
  1. When you don't feel comfortable when being referred to as a boy/girl, or man/woman.
  2. When a wrong pronoun is used to describe you, it may also trigger discomfort.
  3. Some people may feel that their body is not in line with their deeply felt sense of self.
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Can gender dysphoria go away?

It found that 84 percent of kids with gender dysphoria eventually desisted, or came to feel comfortable with their birth-assigned gender.
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Can gender dysphoria be a phase?

Gender dysphoria in children and adolescents is not a phase.
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Why do little boys wear dresses?

The main reason for keeping boys in dresses was toilet training, or the lack thereof. The change was probably made once boys had reached the age when they could easily undo the rather complicated fastenings of many early modern breeches and trousers.
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Will my son grow out of wearing dresses?

Dear Seeking Advice,

You are smart to tell him that wearing dresses, etc., is just for play and that they should only be worn at home. He will grow out of this phase within the next year and it is not uncommon.
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How do you tell your parents you want to wear girl clothes?

Ask for their support. Tell your parents that you would really like their acceptance of your decision and feelings, their permission to buy the clothes, or anything else you need from them. Express that you want them to be a part of your life and let them know what's going on.
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How do you help someone with gender identity?

Where to Begin?
  1. Do Your Research. There is growing recognition that gender is not a simple binary (male and female), but rather a spectrum. ...
  2. Show Respect. Be respectful of an individual's affirmed gender identity, name, and pronouns. ...
  3. Be an ally and advocate. ...
  4. Get support if needed.
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Can puberty cause gender dysphoria?

In on-line forums, parents have reported that their children seemed to experience a sudden or rapid onset of gender dysphoria, appearing for the first time during puberty or even after its completion.
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How do you deal with gender crisis?

Other ways to ease gender dysphoria might include use of:
  1. Peer support groups.
  2. Voice and communication therapy to develop vocal characteristics matching your experienced or expressed gender.
  3. Hair removal or transplantation.
  4. Genital tucking.
  5. Breast binding.
  6. Breast padding.
  7. Packing.
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At what age is gender dysphoria most common?

All of the participants were adult patients seeking gender-affirming surgery. The study findings revealed that 73% of the transgender women and 78% of the transgender men first experienced gender dysphoria by age 7.
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How can I help my child with gender dysphoria?

How Can I Help My Child with Gender Dysphoria?
  1. Offer support. ...
  2. Educate yourself. ...
  3. Get them in gender-affirming therapy. ...
  4. Ask questions. ...
  5. Allow for (and encourage) exploration. ...
  6. Help them with a medical transition. ...
  7. Advocate for your child.
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At what age does gender dysphoria develop?

We found that nearly all TM and TW first experienced GD by age 7 years (gender identity typically becomes constant at ages 5-7 years),1 which is only 1.5 and 2.2 years later than each cohort's first life memories (which typically occur at ages 3-4 years).
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Does gender dysphoria get worse with age?

A small number of children may feel lasting and severe distress, which gets worse as they get older. This often happens around puberty, when young people might feel that their physical appearance does not match their gender identity.
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What therapy is best for gender dysphoria?

It's important to remember that hormone therapy is only one of the treatments for gender dysphoria. Others include voice therapy and psychological support. The decision to have hormone therapy will be taken after a discussion between you and your clinic team.
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Can gender dysphoria be caused by trauma?

Gender dysphoria currently exists as a mental health diagnosis, perpetuating stigma as well as pathologizing gender variance. Clinical social workers have preserved a harmful formulation that gender dysphoria is a disorder caused by trauma.
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How do I know if my child has gender dysphoria?

Your child might:
  1. feel strongly that their gender identity differs from the sex they were given at birth or tell you that they feel unsure about their gender.
  2. ask you to call them by a different name and use a different pronoun like 'he', 'she' or 'they'
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Do I have gender dysphoria?

Some signs that someone is experiencing gender dysphoria include: A desire to no longer have the primary sex characteristics of their birth-assigned gender. A desire to be treated as the opposite gender. A desire to have the primary and secondary sex characteristics of their preferred gender identity.
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Do you have to have gender dysphoria?

Not all transgender people have gender dysphoria. On its own, being transgender is not considered a medical condition. Many transgender people do not experience serious anxiety or stress associated with the difference between their gender identity and their gender of birth, and so may not have gender dysphoria.
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Can you change DNA from male to female?

Genetics overall cannot be changed (so far, at least)

Sex chromosomes, in particular, determine whether someone will have female or male body parts. As you can see in the image below, these are chromosomes found in a typical person. We each have 23 pairs. The last pair are known as the sex chromosomes.
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