Do I have to tell the Army im married?

You don't need advanced permission and there is no special military paperwork to fill out before the marriage. You simply get married according to the laws of the state where the marriage is taking place after obtaining a marriage license off-base.

Can you get married and not tell the military?

If the spouse that you marry is not in the military, the military member can receive a dependent ID card for the spouse to enroll in the Defense Eligibility Enrollment Reporting System (DEERS) in order to be eligible for commissary and Base Exchange privileges, medical coverage, and other military benefits.

What happens if your married in the military?

Military marriages come with benefits.

As a military spouse, you have access to career and education support, non-medical counseling, financial benefits and much more. All free and available 24/7.

Can you leave the Army if you get married?

The married military member is entitled to move their dependents (and personal property) to the next duty station at government expense. Travel entitlements end when one signs in at their new duty station, so whether or not one can be reimbursed for dependent travel depends on the date of the marriage.

Do you get paid more in the Army if you're married?

Although not known as "military marriage pay," service members do receive a pay increase as part of their housing and cost-of-living allowances after they get married.

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Why do military couples marry so fast?

"Marriage is deliberately made to be compatible with military life because this is an important way to retain personnel. The conditions of military employment also lead naturally to marriage. There's stable employment, comprehensive family benefits, and economic mobility in an entry-level job.

Do you get BAH If you are married?

If you are married and living with your spouse or minor dependents, you will either live in on-base housing or be given a monetary allowance called Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH) to live off-base. The amount of BAH depends on your duty station zip code, your rank, and whether or not you have dependents.

What to do after getting married in the Army?

What are the benefits of being married in the military?

Can you have an open marriage in the military?

Short answer: No.

Is it hard being a military wife?

The life of a military spouse is undeniably challenging. Being away from your partner for months or years at a time, assuming the role of a single parent, trying to balance a career while moving so often – all of these realities of military life can take its toll.

How long does it take for BAH to start after getting married?

If you get married before joining the military, this tax-free housing allowance begins on the very first day of active duty (the first day of basic training). If one waits until after joining the military to get married, the housing allowance becomes effective on the date of the marriage.

Can married couples go to basic training together?

A join spouse assignment allows legally married active-duty military couples the opportunity to be stationed together at the same installation.

Is it better to get married before or after basic training?

Again, it is not encouraged to get married solely because he is joining. There will be plenty of opportunities at a later date when you know the time is right. However, if you are already planning a wedding, it may be to your advantage to get married before he leaves for basic training.

Are you allowed to date in the military?

Yes, soldiers are allowed to date civilians, as well as other soldiers in the military. However, there are some limitations. Officers and enlisted are not allowed to date. There are some exceptions if they were dating prior to joining the service, but you'll want to check the regs for the details.

Can a girlfriend be a military dependent?

When you marry a service member, you technically become a "dependent" (though I have yet to encounter a military spouse that I would define as dependent on anyone!). However, when you're not married to the service member, you are dependent on them for access to services that play a major role in his or her life.

Do military spouses get military ID?

As a veteran, military retiree, spouse or dependent of a service member, you may be eligible for a Defense Department identification card. Called the Uniformed Services ID card, this military ID proves your identity and connection to the DOD and gives you access to certain military services and programs.

Do married military both get BAH?

Thankfully the military now pays both spouses for their housing and subsistence allowances. Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH) rates depend on location and rank, so the more expensive an area, the higher the BAH you'll receive. For dual military couples who have no children, both spouses receive BAH without dependents.

How much more money do you get from being married in the military?

No, the federal government won't give you a pay raise just for getting married. It won't give you "military marriage pay," but it does the next best thing. It gives servicemembers more of a housing allowance when they add a dependent, and yes, a spouse is considered a dependent. It offers a few other perks as well.

How does marriage work in the army?

There are no laws governing military marriage. Military members can marry whomever they want, including same-sex partners.

Do military spouses get CAC cards?

Yes, if they meet the qualifications. Spouses of 100% disabled veterans are eligible for an ID card. Also, caregivers who are registered in the Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers and who receive a letter from the VA Office of Community Care can also be issued an ID card.

How do I change my name after marriage in the military?

Generally, you will need to complete and submit DA Form 4187 to your commanding officer. You will also need to provide documentation supporting the name change, such as the certificate of marriage, divorce decree or court order. Once the army approves the name change, your military records will reflect the change.

How many military couples get divorced?

Overall, military personnel maintained a steady percentage of divorces between 2014 and 2019. The divorce rate during these years remained relatively stable at 3% to 3.1% for each year studied.

Will the military pay to move my spouse?

If you're facing a permanent change of station (PCS), planning your inevitable move can raise many questions along with your anxiety. The good news is that the military will pay for your spouse to move as long as you live in the same home together.

How Does BAH work for married couples?

In cases where both spouses in a marriage are on active duty, both will receive the without-dependent BAH rate commensurate based on their rank and location. If a married couple has children, only one parent (the higher ranking one) will receive the higher with-dependent BAH rate.